How to Rekindle Your Sex Life: A True Story Shelley and Dan* came to work with me after the sex dried up in their marriage of 40 years....

The Risk of Building a Business With Your Partner The odds are not known to be good for couples who work together on a startup. So… Why...

The Problem with Keeping a 50/50 Score in Your Relationship You’re stuck in a zero-sum game. If she ‘wins’, you lose, and vice versa. The...

Are you unconsciously sabotaging your relationship happiness? I have seen many couples in my practice who come in mired in complaints...

How to Repair Your Relationship In a previous article  I talked about how the sign of a great relationship isn’t that you ‘never fight’ -...

“Our relationship isn’t perfect, but…” Here’s the thing: Perfection isn’t the goal. It never was. If by ‘perfect’ you mean ‘we never...

Want to know how to keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship? Here’s the truth: It’s not about scheduled intimacy or expensive...

You’d never build a business empire without an A-team of advisors. So why are you winging it in your relationship - something that is...

The man I was talking to on Zoom was worried. Things weren’t going well with his girlfriend. “Everything else comes first before me — her...

“But, Jessica, isn’t asking for what I want ‘needy’?” This is the #1 most common objection I get from men in sexless marriage when I...

For a moment, let’s stipulate that these common narratives about relating are ‘right’: 1. Asking for what you want in a relationship is...

Turn Her On by Doing What You Love It’s true what the research says: It’s ridiculously hot to see my partner in his element, his ‘zone of...

What's the #1 block to having healthy relationships? The #1 block to having healthy relationships that I see repeatedly is equating ‘...

How to reignite the passion with your wife If you want to be more attractive to your wife, there’s a common misunderstanding that may be...

Wondering how to fix your sexless marriage? Get on board with the ‘both-and.’ Yep, that’s the trick. Wondering what in the world that...

Science-backed Winning Strategies in Relating In my last article, I wrote about research-backed ‘losing strategies’ in relating ,...

You don’t have to guess what doesn’t work. The data is there. The data is in! From both research and half a century of clinical work with...

Tired of all those articles promising to ‘spice up’ your love life? Bored with passionate encounters and deep connections? I put together...

At least at work problems get solved. But at home? Not so much. “Relating was confusing and distressing, so I avoided it,” Seth, founder...

When it comes down to how to awaken your wife's desire, romantic dinners, flowers, and lingerie aren’t anywhere on the list . You’re...