- Hone flirting skills that make her want more
- Be bold & assertive (without being a jerk), and skillfully progress from talking to the physical
- Create erotic artistry through ritual, power play, and esoteric practices
Here's the truth
You've created the success, wealth, and time freedom you've always wanted. But one thing is still missing.
While your were busy building and exiting your company, your love life was on the back burner.
Now you realize that success feels hollow without love - and your marriage hadn't been working for a long time.
If you're honest, your divorce did a number on your confidence and your dating skills need updating.
Loneliness at the top is real - and so is the need to be discerning when it comes to dating.
It's time you had someone in your corner.
who it's for
How Bliss Science can help
This is for you if...
You're craving a deep, mutual, sexy relationship where you're both open to growing together.
You're putting your best foot forward, but women ghost or tell you they don't feel 'any 'chemistry.'
You know that money can confound love, and you want a woman who loves you for who you are - but how do you discern that when dating?
My clients have faced
Rebuilding confidence after going through a ringer of a divorce
How to flirt without feeling 'creepy' and without fear of getting cancelled
Where to find self-aware, open-minded single women without using apps
Recovering from 'Nice Guy' tendencies without being inauthentic
How to know when the connection is real and not about their bank account
Overcoming performance anxiety
The Framework that Leads to Love
The Bliss Science Method
Your Inner Game:
Date Yourself First
Date Yourself First
- Create a bullet-proof dating mindset - goodbye fear of rejection & limiting beliefs
- Build positive life & dating habits
- Embody the authentic confidence and presence that high-caliber women crave.
Dating IQ:
Skillfully Build the Bond Between You & Her
Skillfully Build the Bond Between You & Her
- Get inside your ideal woman's head and know exactly what attracts her
- Meet women in-person in unconventional ways
- Be confident and authentic: put your best foot forward without being someone you're not
- Stop over-thinking: know how to evaluate a date and when to take things deeper
Your Sex Game:
Solidify Your Confidence as a Lover
Solidify Your Confidence as a Lover
Modern dating is a minefield. You want a guide you can trust, who won't judge you. I've helped powerful nerds bring their A-game in love for the past 10 years.
Dr. Jessica Gold
Meet your coach. A PhD chemist turned relationship expert who knows what makes a strong bond.
Like many of us in STEM, after 10 years in academia, I had never had a single class on healthy relationships.
With no tools, I struggled in my marriage, and we eventually divorced.
Dating after my divorce, I finally found the education I needed: communication, attachment, boundaries, shadow work, and nerding out about sex.
I created my Bliss Science method to get you results — blending the scientific and the somatic to create the strongest bonds.
With no tools, I struggled in my marriage, and we eventually divorced.
Dating after my divorce, I finally found the education I needed: communication, attachment, boundaries, shadow work, and nerding out about sex.
I created my Bliss Science method to get you results — blending the scientific and the somatic to create the strongest bonds.
I'm bringing what I learned to other founders and logic-minded humans, to help you get out of your head and into a relationship of passion and substance.
This method worked for me. It has also worked for over 500 clients and counting.
I've been called "fierce and fearless." I'm here for the love that sets your soul on fire.
This method worked for me. It has also worked for over 500 clients and counting.
I've been called "fierce and fearless." I'm here for the love that sets your soul on fire.
Dr. Jessica Gold
Executive Relationship Consultant
& Tech Founder
& Tech Founder
Why this works
01
Go beyond just talking
Let's face it: therapy sucks for men. You don't want endless, leading questions and a blank slate. You want to be challenged and you want expert perspective, actionable advice, and results that don't take years.
02
Results-oriented
I’m an MIT-trained PhD chemist and neuroscientist turned relationship expert. I use neuroscience-backed methods to transform you at the core—so you don’t just know what to do; your system can do it under pressure.
03
Impeccably discreet and personally tailored
My clients have been successful public figures and men running multi-million dollar companies who required total discretion. No cookie-cutter bullshit here; our process together is tailored to your exact situation.
Book a Chemistry Call
Hear from other leaders like you
*names & images have been changed to protect the anonymity of my clients.
After working with Jessica, my energy shifted, and my wife started initiating intimacy - unheard of before - and she even pounced on me in the middle of the night.
Sam
Lawyer, Miami
I feel very thankful for my choice to work with Jessica. I consider her a great human asset in my self-development process, which has spanned 30 years.
Zach
Founder & CEO, Denver
I am also impressed at how deep you can take me - and how much you can help me feel. True mastery of your craft. There’s no one else I would trust to take me to that place. You’re one of a kind.
Eric
Founder & Engineer, Seattle
“After a 10 year intimate dry spell in my marriage, this work allowed me to finally reconnect intimately with my wife.”
James
Scientist, Berkeley
"Through these practices, I saw my wife like she was 20 years ago - there was a newness and innocence in relating. We lost that through the years of kids, work, and stress."
Jeff
Engineer, Berkeley
If you want to make your intimate life better and grow the connection with your partner, work with Jessica, you won’t be disappointed.
James
Engineer, Vancouver
"I had pretty generalized anxiety. It would make me end relationships pre-maturely. Now, I feel a lot more self-aware and balanced. I am in the position of qualifying women who I want to date rather than compulsive ‘pleasing.’ I’m surprised at how much easier it is to be decisive - even for things outside of dating, for example - in choosing a new apartment. And how much less stressful dating is when I have standards in place. And I’ve extended improving my relationships from the romantic domain to also include my friendships."
Eddie
Software Engineer
Working with Jessica has been life-changing. You’ve helped me step into a new level of confidence in both myself and my dating life.
Mark
Consultant/CEO, Seattle
Working with Jessica is a game changer for anyone who wants to transform their relationship with intimacy and have more confidence, love and integrity. Highly recommend!
Joe
CEO, New York
What's Included
1-on-1 Coaching
Find a woman who your friends don't have to stage an intervention over
Here, you get to be real about your experiences as a man without being judged, even if the truth is not "PC."
This offer includes:
Choice between monthly retainer or 6-month immersion package
1:1 sessions via video or in-person walk-and-talk
Direct access to Dr. Jessica via messaging
Personally-tailored library of proven practices
In-depth personal assessment, weekly accountability, and quantification of progress
In-person retreat in the San Francisco Bay Area (6-month Immersion only)
Access to Jessica Gold AI 24/7
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you offer in-person sessions?
I do not offer office visits. Regular calls are on Zoom or outside via walk-and-talk. The 6-month package includes an in-person retreat in the San Francisco area.
I'm single and dating, but I haven't been married and divorced; can I still work with you?
Yes. While most of my clients are mature men who are dating again after getting divorced, I have helped successful single men of all ages and stages date successfully.
What if I don't want to use the dating apps?
I regularly help my clients find unique and unexpected ways to meet women offline, in real life.
Do you offer single sessions?
To get a taste of my work, you can schedule a free introductory call and then choose a monthly retainer for 1 month. I do not offer single sessions and do not have an hourly rate because I am here to help you find true love, not to be on a clock. Unlike the standard therapy model, in coaching you receive support far beyond our scheduled calls.
Do you work with women?
Yes, I do occasionally take female clients; you're welcome to apply.
What's the difference between dating coaching and matchmaking?
Matchmaking is a much more white glove process that also includes dating coaching. A major difference is that in matchmaking, I actively search for matches for you.
Ready to light your love life
on fire?
on fire?
I accept only a small number of clients per year. Request your consultation below.
*Serious and appropriate inquiries only.*
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