A free 3-part audio series for men who have built everything they set out to build — except the marriage they actually want.
If you're successful at everything except this, the problem isn't effort. It's that the skills that built your career are the exact skills working against you at home. This series shows you why, and what to do instead — even if she's been checked out for years.
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After working with Jessica, my energy shifted, and my wife started initiating intimacy - unheard of before - and she even pounced on me in the middle of the night.
I feel very thankful for my choice to work with Jessica. I consider her a great human asset in my self-development process, which has spanned 30 years.
I am also impressed at how deep you can take me - and how much you can help me feel. True mastery of your craft. There’s no one else I would trust to take me to that place. You’re one of a kind.
“After a 10 year intimate dry spell in my marriage, this work allowed me to finally reconnect intimately with my wife.”
"Through these practices, I saw my wife like she was 20 years ago - there was a newness and innocence in relating. We lost that through the years of kids, work, and stress."
If you want to make your intimate life better and grow the connection with your partner, work with Jessica, you won’t be disappointed.
“Before working with Jessica, even small disagreements with my wife would spiral. I felt constantly on edge, defensive, and desperate for closeness that just wasn’t there. Jessica taught me how to slow down, really listen, and stop trying to ‘fix’ my wife’s feelings with logic. This is changing the emotional climate in our marriage. For the first time in a long time, I feel hopeful, confident, and deeply connected to my wife again.”
"In this course, I learned how effective it is to just listen to her. In the past, I would have argued. But now in a recent argument, I just listened and let her finish. I told her I understood and that I wanted to do things differently. The argument ended almost immediately, and I could feel her relax because she finally felt heard. Later that night, she fell asleep in my arms on the couch. This never happened before in our marriage. Then she invited me to come sleep in her bedroom. It's been years since that happened."
"After the first week, my wife is already on fire. This is the first time I've ever seen her have so much desire - and we've been married for 22 years. Prior to starting these practices, we hadn't had sex for two months, but now she can't keep her hands off of me. We absolutely feel more deeply connected already."
"I signed up with the intention of improving my skills as a lover. But it's also made me a better human being and father. The breathing and grounding practices really have made this difference."
"I don't know about your skill in molecular chemistry, but you excel at interpersonal chemistry."
"[Working with you] has far exceeded my expectations. You get to the root of things, and have a way of seeing issues and problem solving that's novel to me."
"I was actually surprised how easy it was to talk about innermost things that had never been revealed to anyone. Discovering my own power and masculinity has been the biggest positive outcome."
“The sex in my 20+ year marriage had dropped to 1x every 4-6 months. I was resigned, thinking ‘this is just the way it is’. But after working with Jessica, my energy shifted, and my wife started initiated sex - unheard of before - and even pounced on me in the middle of the night. AND, after years of finishing in the first 2-5 min, now we go for 30 min. Our sex life is better than ever, and the sex is helping everything about our relationships. This stuff works.”
"After working with you, I am pleased to report that my relationship with my wife is in a really good place as we begin to navigate our 60s. As you said in your TEDx talk — most couples don't realize that, for success, it takes the same level of effort in relationships as it does to do something like scientific research."
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