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You mean well. You try to listen, offer advice, do the right thing — yet somehow, it’s never quite right. You end up being accused of “not understanding,” “not listening,” or “not doing it right,” even when your intentions are pure.
The truth is, communication between men and women isn’t broken... it’s mismatched. You just need a better playbook for connection, not more guessing or apologizing.
You've heard about what is possible: Calm, open conversations, mutual respect, and a woman who actually feels seen by you.
But where do you start? Here.
After working with Jessica, my energy shifted, and my wife started initiating intimacy - unheard of before - and she even pounced on me in the middle of the night.
I feel very thankful for my choice to work with Jessica. I consider her a great human asset in my self-development process, which has spanned 30 years.
I am also impressed at how deep you can take me - and how much you can help me feel. True mastery of your craft. There’s no one else I would trust to take me to that place. You’re one of a kind.
“After a 10 year intimate dry spell in my marriage, this work allowed me to finally reconnect intimately with my wife.”
"Through these practices, I saw my wife like she was 20 years ago - there was a newness and innocence in relating. We lost that through the years of kids, work, and stress."
If you want to make your intimate life better and grow the connection with your partner, work with Jessica, you won’t be disappointed.
This program has allowed me to be increasingly present with and have much better communication with women. I've found myself talking with many beautiful women without the overwhelming need or thought that I have to get somewhere with them. I'm enjoying the flow of conversation and the playfulness, and not feeling awkward. I'm having fun with conversations and honoring my own standards for a relationship rather than just a hookup.
“I was bad at setting boundaries and thus unreliable/temperamental. I had shut myself off from almost all romantic contact with women because I was in so much pain. Jessica helped me recognize that, and gave me tools that I still use. I feel less afraid to take social risks now, because I have more confidence in my ability to assert my needs without getting in over my head and burning bridges. In dating, I feel confident that I will be able to assert my needs kindly and politely. I have been able to walk away from several (previously seductive) codependent relationship patterns when they presented themselves.”
My marriage has opened up—our communication and sharing have improved like never before. I used to shove my anger and emotions down, only to explode. Jessica helped me draw out, acknowledge, address and handle my emotions. I even verbalize them now, to myself or my wife. This course has value that goes far beyond the financial investment. It has been life-changing. My entire approach to life, to every single day to my relationship (and to how I interact with women—and even men—in general) has been enhanced, made much more positive and accepting, joyful and energized.
“I entered this program seeking help to break out of a routine of hesitancy in communication with my partner that had to do with emotions and feelings of inadequacy due to physical issues that affected my confidence sexually as well as an overall outlook on life. This course was a very valuable way to create a direction towards that purpose. Dr. Jessica has an amazing sense of insight, wisdom, compassion, and knowledge in all aspects of this unique program she has created, and she does it in a way that is both fun, thought provoking, and engaging. The intellectual playfulness that she has is truly inspirational.”
I was always a ‘yes’ person, out of touch with my intuition. I didn’t realize I could have boundaries and standards. I was always in a ‘pleaser’ mode. I believed I needed to ‘perform’ sexually, or I’d be an embarrassment and my relationship would be over. I avoided the discomfort of vulnerability or tough conversations. This caused a lot of anxiety. It would make me end relationships pre-maturely. Now, in general, I feel a lot more self-aware and balanced. I am in the position of qualifying other people who I want to interact with rather than compulsive ‘pleasing.’ I’m surprised at how much easier it is to be decisive - even for things outside of dating, for example - in choosing a new apartment. And how much less stressful dating is when I have standards in place. And I’ve extended improving my relationships from the romantic domain to also include my friendships.
Whether you’re single and dating, or in a relationship, this is for you.
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