How to Keep Your Marriage Cold

THE REIGNITION SESSIONS · LIVE CLASS FOR MEN SEPT 15 & SEPT 18

You've gotten impressively good at creating a situation you don't want. In 75 minutes, live, I'll show you the instruction manual you've been unconsciously following, and how to write the one you actually want to use.

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Created by Jessica Gold
a PhD chemist turned Relationship Chemist™

the problem

You've solved harder problems than this. That's what makes it so disorienting.

You've tried talking. Date nights. Maybe therapy. Push harder, do more, fix it faster — the playbook that works everywhere else. And the marriage is still cold.

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Here's the thing: it's not a motivation problem, and it's probably not a broken marriage. It's a system producing a predictable result. Which raises an uncomfortable, oddly liberating possibility: somewhere in that system, you've gotten very good at keeping things exactly as they are. Not on purpose. Nobody does this on purpose. But there's one question about it that almost no man ever gets asked, because it sounds absurd until you sit with it, and then it quietly rearranges everything.

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That question is what this class is for.

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What happens in the class

This isn't a webinar where you watch slides for an hour and get pitched for thirty minutes. It's a working session, 75 minutes:

The question.

I'll walk you through a thought experiment I use with my private clients: what are you actually committed to? Not what you say you want. What the evidence says you've been building. It sounds confronting. Done right (and we'll do it right), it's the opposite of blame, and men consistently tell me it's the moment they got their power back.

The writing exercise

You'll do it live, privately, on your own paper. Nobody sees it. Nobody shares. What you write stays with you; what changes is what you can see.

Anonymous Q&A

Bring the question about your marriage you've never had anywhere to ask. Submit it anonymously, hear it answered live.

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At the end, I'll take a few minutes to walk through Relationship Reboot, my six-month program, for men who want to keep going. More on that honesty below.

Before we meet:

Your registration includes The Chemistry Experiment, my three-audio series with a one-week experiment to run in your marriage. Run it before the class if you can. The audios give you the experiment; live, we work with what the experiment kicks up.

Your $33 payment covers either (or both) live sittings, the recording, and the three-audio Chemistry Experiment to run before we meet. You are never on camera, and questions are anonymous.

Two sittings, one class
Sitting 1 — Tuesday, September 15, 7:00pm PT Sitting 2 — Friday, September 18, 12:30pm PT

Same class, two day/times, so one of them can fit a real calendar. Come to either, or both. The recording arrives in your inbox the same day and is yours to keep.

Built for privacy

This subject is nobody's business but yours.
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You're never on camera. No introductions, no breakout rooms, no sharing. The writing exercise is done privately; questions are submitted anonymously. Show up in AirPods on a walk if you want. The recording comes to your inbox, not a community platform.

Who this is for

Men who are winning everywhere except at home, and are done living like roommates. Typically founders, engineers, executives: men who think in systems and want mechanism, not motivation. Many have tried couples therapy, or have a wife who isn't open to it. This work starts with one person.

It is not for men looking for tactics to use on their wives. There's a difference between changing the system and gaming it, and this class lives entirely on one side of that line.

All of a sudden I have a girlfriend again who takes my hand and cuddles up. The wall that was there is gone."

Jay, Consultant, Bethesda

Jessica's story

Meet your teacher. I'm a PhD chemist turned Relationship Chemist™

For about a decade, I studied how bonds form, down at the molecular level. I did my undergrad in chemistry and neuroscience at MIT, my PhD in organic chemistry at Berkeley, then a postdoc at UCSF. And in all those years, I never once took a class on how to be a healthy human. Nothing on communication, or emotional intelligence, or how relationships actually work.

Then my own marriage ended, in a painful divorce. I'd spent ten years understanding how atoms bond and not one minute learning how people do. So I went and learned it, from some of the best researchers and teachers in the world.

Today I'm a professionally certified coach who helps men and couples build the connection that actually works.

I've worked with more than 500 of them, founders, investors, attorneys, engineers, all stuck in the same gap between a thriving career and a struggling marriage. I know that gap from the inside: I co-founded a tech company myself, so when a founder says his marriage is the one thing he can't engineer his way out of, I know exactly what he means. He doesn't want therapy-speak. He wants to understand the system and make the moves that shift it.

And here's what I've seen again and again: the couples who thrive bring the same focus to their marriage that they bring to everything else that matters. The men I work with get that right away.

Jessica Gold, PhD

Executive Relationship Chemist
& Tech Founder

The class, both sittings, the recording, and the Chemistry Experiment: $33.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does my wife need to participate?

No. This class is for the partner who's starting alone. That's the point.

What if I can't attend either time?

The recording arrives in your inbox the same day, and the Chemistry Experiment is yours immediately either way. Live attendance gets you the anonymous Q&A; the teaching is identical.

Will anyone know I'm there?

No. Attendees are invisible to each other, you're never on camera, the writing stays on your paper, and questions are anonymous.

Is this therapy?

No. It's teaching: a working session with research and mechanism, translated by someone who's spent a decade applying it.

Is this a pitch for something bigger?

Mostly not. I'm walking you through a real practice, live, that shows you what you need to do to reignite your marriage. For some, that's enough. For others, you'll want support in implementing it. For that, I'll tell you about Relationship Reboot, my private six-month audio program. You're welcome to drop off before that part.

" My relationship with my wife is now the best it has been in 15-20 years. This has made a huge difference in my life!!"

Jay, engineering consultant, Bethesda

September 15 & 18
Live, private, $33.

Questions? Reply to any email from me, or write to support@bliss-science.com

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How to Keep Your Marriage Cold

You've solved harder problems than this. That's what makes it so disorienting.

What happens in the class

The class, both sittings, the recording, and the Chemistry Experiment: $33.

September 15 & 18Live, private, $33.

September 15 & 18
Live, private, $33.