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12 Principles of True Chemistry for Your Relationship
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Want to know the secrets to a relationship that stays vibrant, passionate, and fulfilling—year after year?
It’s not about fancy date nights or expensive trips. Research shows that real connection requires something deeper.
That’s why I’ve distilled the 12 essential principles that show you which variables to experiment with to actually get ROI from your efforts.
Stop doing what doesn’t work and instead create a life full of love and passion.
In this free guide, you'll discover how to:
▽ Turn intimacy into a playful, sacred (read: intentional) space where you stop worrying or feeling self-conscious and instead experiment together.
▽ Transform the ordinary into ineffable realms of deep connection and pleasure.
▽ Expertly your body and hers with a new sense of wonder that transcends the discursive mind.
▽ Re-establish a foundation of mutual trust and respect so that she feels safe to receive you.
▽ Get out of stuck patterns of arguing and go straight to the heart to make her melt.
These 12 principles aren’t just for the moment.
They’re designed to create lasting change, bringing delight and pleasure into the everyday.
Ready to stop convincing and arguing and start optimizing for a Passionate, Thriving Relationship?
It’s time to get on the same team again when it comes to connection.
Experiment with these 12 principles today and watch your relationship grow deeper, more playful, and filled with new passion.
And yes, this works even if she is resistant: I’ve helped hundreds of men make the first move - and watched their wife come alive.
This is what your wife is secretly wanting from you.
When I ran experiments every day in lab for my PhD, I was gathering information to optimize my process, from a place of curiosity and even wonder.
It was normal and expected to not get every experiment right.
Relating like a scientist takes the judgment, performance pressure, fear, and shame away from how we interact and gives permission to get curious about each other and experiment.

I found your 12 principles to be the best, most concise overview I have come a read (and I read a lot) on the subject, so thank you for that. It allowed me to pull so much of what I’ve learned into one concise way of how to “be tantric” in both life and sex.
- John, San Francisco

Now I get it! THIS is what it's like for sex to be about intimacy rather than about body parts. My whole life all I did was rush to the finish line. Now I'm interested in presence. I just saw my wife like she was 20 years ago - there was a newness and innocence in relating. We lost that through the years of kids, work, and stress." Greg, San Jose
- Greg, San Jose

Meet Dr Jessica
Who would you rather learn about True Chemistry from than an MIT-trained PhD scientist? I spent 4+ years living in spiritual communities - and the last 10 years obsessively studying relational intelligence with the world's best teachers.
I've been called 'fierce and fearless.' I use my Bliss Science method to get you results - and your bottom line will thank you. My clients say ‘it’s like night and day.’
I'm a professionally-certified coach (PCC), and I bring my lived experience to this work: getting out of my head, a painful divorce, 8 years in the minefield of modern dating, and creating the relationship of my dreams with the love of my life.