how to bring back the spark in your marriage

For couples who give a damn about their erotic life and recognize that nurturing the spark nurtures love

Whether you’ve found a sense of routine creeping into your intimate moments lately, or you’re feeling disconnected altogether…

It's time to lean in and build a sacred relationship on every level: physical, emotional, and spiritual.

That's what we are here for!

Bring back the passion in your long-term relationship.

Re-create a magnetic sense of intimacy that will make people think you just met.

Or, if you're in a new relationship, establish a lasting foundation of intentional intimacy and skillful connection.

I call it Sacred Relating.

Erotic energy is a powerful tool for conscious partnership

The Art of Sacred Relating

It's about creating a shared vision for your relationship together - and being on the same team again.

It's about creating the safety to ask for what you want and to hold each other's emotions without blame, shame, or judgment.

In these conditions, instead of intimacy as a task to be checked off your to-do list,

it becomes an asset to your daily thriving that you both crave.

Flirting with each other is fun when you feel safe, heard, and respected.

My couples coaching is renowned for reviving the thrill of discovery, the delight in the unknown, and the sensual connection that makes your heart race.

The Skill and the Magic of Sacred Relating

"Sacred" simply means 'being in full presence.'

I’ll teach you the essentials in self-awareness, emotional fluency, and communication to create a more open, trusting connection.

You'll also learn non-sexual intimacy games, erotic rituals, and somatic-based deep healing practices.

My Bliss Science method is based on modern science & psychology, non-dual tantra, and my own personal relating (mis)adventures.

This was made for us

Ever wondered about the dynamics of power play in your relationship?

I provide a safe and nurturing space to explore polarity, tantra, and kink as a couple, allowing you to discover what truly turns you on.

Imagine this is your reality…

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▽ You are able to lose yourselves in intimacy and play together, focused on pleasure rather than outcome.

▽ You feel safe and skilled to ask for what you want - both in and out of the bedroom.

▽ You feel empowered to say ‘yes’ or ‘no’. You no longer feel pressure to respond a certain way.

▽ You’ve escaped from ruts and routines in connection, and you’re exploring an endless field of new possibilities.

▽ Sex feels like an exciting priority, and you recognize the value that pleasure and physical connection bring to your life.

▽ You have a solid foundation of safety, spark, and devotion between the two of you. You feel heard, understood, and validated. In a word: loved.

▽ You feel that magnetic pull again – the one that was there when you first met.

This is what we want

How Bliss Science works

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▽ Somatic and non-linear approaches to get out of ruts, heal, and get on the same team again

▽ Tantric practices and philosophies for more love and pleasure

▽ Empathic communication, emotional fluency, and nervous system regulation - together

▽ Flirting, non-sexual intimacy, and playful erotic experiments for lasting passion

Structure of the Immersion

Keep a consistent pulse of this work with bimonthly online video sessions

Direct access to Jessica via messaging, M-F

Opening 2-hour deep dive with tailored Bliss Roadmap

In-person intensive in the San Francisco Bay

In-depth personal assessment, weekly accountability (if desired), and quantification of progress

Guided rituals to do both together and on your own, at home

Bonus for the 6-month immersion: Access to Jessica Gold AI 24/7 and a private podcast feed of curated teachings.

Choose 1) Weekend In-person Intensive only, 2) Monthly Retainer (no in-person), 3) 6-month immersion (mid-5 figures).

Create Your Sacred Relationship

Note: Coaching immersions are not priced ‘by the hour’. Dr. Jessica does not offer one-off sessions and does not have an ‘hourly rate.’

~Steven, Vancouver

"Jessica is a fabulous facilitator with so much to offer those desiring to expand and amplify their sexual potential.

Her extensive background has her poised with new tools and wisdom downloads to offer. Highly recommend working with her."

Why work with me over a couple’s therapist or any other type of relationship coach?

Dr. Jessica Gold
Executive Relationship Coach
For leaders, founders, and investors in tech

My approach combines both science-backed and subtle energy elements – the objective and the subjective – bridging the rational world with the mystical.

Couples often remark that the angle I take is completely different from what they’ve encountered in therapy. We do everything from deep healing to erotic practices together.

I'm an MIT-trained PhD scientist who also spent 4+ years living in a spiritual community. I like to say I've always been studying 'bonding' - molecular or interpersonal!

I've worked with over 500 clients. My Bliss Science method builds your sacred relationship - through the 3 pillars of Safety, Spark, and Devotion.

I've been married and divorced, made many mistakes, had to learn all this myself, and now I have built the sacred relationship of my dreams with my partner, Tevye.

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