Meet DR. Jessica gold

MIT-trained scientist turned Relationship Chemist for high-achieving men

Build the one bond money can’t buy—guided by a PhD who’s mastered molecular and relational chemistry.

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Why I do this

The Origin of Bliss Science

My moment of crisis

I grew up in the desert of West Texas, where I eventually traded in cattle & oil rigs for lab coats & molecules, as I got my PhD in chemistry from the #1 school in the country.

Yet despite 10 years in academia, I never had a single class on healthy relationships, or how to be a healthy human.

Instead, I learned to repress my body and emotions to get by, resulting in crippling anxiety, stressful relationships, chronic fatigue, and a painful divorce.

the changes that saved me

I decided to leave academia in search of something new.

I spent the next decade living in spiritual communities in Asia, studying meditation, relationships, and personal growth with the world's best teachers, turning my view of the world upside down.

the creation of bliss science

In all of my years of study and exploration, I learned the importance of not only the scientific, but the somatic.

From navigating the minefield of dating after divorce to running a successful tech company with my partner, I learned to blend these practices together for the most meaningful results.

Now, I share those tools in my Bliss Science coaching practice to help other left-brained founders like me create relational bonds that truly last.

My certifications & teachers

International Coaching Federation (PCC level)

VITA Sex, Love, and Relationships (Layla Martin)

Relational Life Therapy (Terry Real)

Process-Oriented Psychology (David Bedrick)

Advanced Foundations in Applied Neuroscience (KCI)

Emotional Mastery (Jenny Hale)

Embodied Relationship Salon (John Wineland & Kendra Cunov)

Non-dual Shaiva Tantra Immersion (Christopher Wallis)

Meditation & Non-dual philosophy (Paul Muller-Ortega)

"Health, love, and your mission, in that order. Nothing else matters."

naval ravikant

why men in tech

I specialize in working with men & couples in tech.

Like many of the men I work with, I was all-mission, all the time, for 15 years. Health and love were accessory. And it led me to burn out at age 33 and leave my scientific career - after a PhD and postdoctoral fellowship.

Today, after 10 years of studying personal growth, I'm on a mission to help men and women love each other. You're probably here because you've realized success in business is hollow without success in love. You can have both.

I should know - I'm co-founder of a tech company too.

You're underserved in relational work

You’re underserved in this work and understandably skeptical of therapy-speak, yet women are hungry for you to lean in.

It takes two to create a world-class relationship

And it requires empathy and collaboration, not shaming. Tools that men haven't been as readily equipped with, until now.

You're logic-driven

As a PhD scientist who was also driven by logic and skeptical of all things somatic & spiritual, I help bridge the gap between men's experiences & their female partners.

Here's the truth

Women are drawn to power, but it's not the kind you think.

It’s the inner power and relational IQ that goes from boardroom composure to bedroom electricity.

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The kind that trades shame and repression for self-awareness and desire.
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You can keep the status-quo of acrimonious relating and dead-bedrooms, or you can become the relationship rebel, flip the script, and create a legacy of love for your children.

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The paradigm-shifting wisdom of the tantric yogis was to value both intellectual understanding as well as subjective embodied experience.

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Reason and emotion. Together, we'll work through both.

If you’re ready for a life-long passionate relationship then click below to join me on this journey.

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Whether you're single & dating, in a committed relationship but doing the work on your own, or wanting support as a couple... I can help.

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