Coaching for Couples

For couples who give a damn about their erotic life and recognize that nurturing passion nurtures wellbeing

Whether you’ve found a sense of routine creeping into your intimate moments lately, or you’re feeling disconnected altogether…

You want a Romantic Reset that lays the foundation for decades of soulful connection - in and out of the bedroom.

this is for you if...

You want to re-create delicious connection in your long-term relationship - one that makes people think you just met.

You want to get out of hurtful habits in communication so that you can go deep, easily handle emotions, and feel like teammates in all of life.

You're in a new relationship and thinking ahead about establishing a lasting foundation of deep intimacy, great communication, and mutual growth.

I provide a safe, supportive, and fun space to explore polarity, tantra, and kink as a couple, allowing you to discover what truly turns you on.

what we'll work on together

The Bliss Science Method

Your Inner Game

Get honest about your role in the relationship dance
Develop a foundation of self-compassion
Decide on your values and commit to showing up in integrity with yourself

Relationship IQ

Get inside your partner's head and re-create an ecology of love between you
Learn each other's 'operating manual' and get to the root of stuck issues
Create a shared language to handle emotions, communication, and boundaries with skill.

The Sex Adventure

Bring the vibrant aliveness of the 'erotic' (outside of the same-old sex) to your relationship
Create a flirty, pressure-free foundation of play
Give each other permission to speak what's real and know how to handle feedback with skill
Develop erotic artistry through ritual, power play, and esoteric practices

Couples come to me for an out-of-the-box approach, when couples therapy wasn't helping.

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Dr. Jessica Gold

Meet your coach. A PhD chemist turned relationship expert who knows what makes a strong bond.

Like many of us in STEM, after 10 years in academia, I had never had a single class on healthy relationships.

I myself ended up in a stressful, sexless marriage. With no tools or training, our marriage dissolved.

I devoted the next decade to studying sex, love, and relationships with the world’s best teachers.

I created my Bliss Science method to bring you what works — blending the scientific and the somatic to create the strongest bonds.

You can get out of sexual purgatory and re-ignite your marriage.

Over 500 clients and counting have felt the benefits.

I've been called 'fierce and fearless' and I'm here for the love that sets your soul on fire.

Dr. Jessica Gold

Executive Relationship Consultant
& Tech Founder

Why this works

Go beyond just therapy

I use methods that therapists are neither trained in nor authorized to use —combining Parts Work, Applied Neuroscience, Non-dual Tantra, Process-Oriented Psychology, and Relational Life Coaching.

Results-oriented

Bliss Science blends research-grade rigor with deep, embodied practice—so you don’t just know what to do; your system can do it under pressure.

Impeccably discreet - and tailored to you

My clients have been successful public figures and founders running multi-million dollar companies who required total discretion. No cookie-cutter bullshit here; our process together is tailored to your exact situation

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*names & images have been changed to protect the anonymity of my clients.

After working with Jessica, my energy shifted, and my wife started initiating intimacy - unheard of before - and she even pounced on me in the middle of the night.

Sam

Lawyer, Miami

I feel very thankful for my choice to work with Jessica. I consider her a great human asset in my self-development process, which has spanned 30 years.

Zach

Founder & CEO, Denver

I am also impressed at how deep you can take me - and how much you can help me feel. True mastery of your craft. There’s no one else I would trust to take me to that place. You’re one of a kind.

Eric

Founder & Engineer, Seattle

“After a 10 year intimate dry spell in my marriage, this work allowed me to finally reconnect intimately with my wife.”

James

Scientist, Berkeley

"Through these practices, I saw my wife like she was 20 years ago - there was a newness and innocence in relating. We lost that through the years of kids, work, and stress."

Jeff

Engineer, Berkeley

If you want to make your intimate life better and grow the connection with your partner, work with Jessica, you won’t be disappointed.

James

Engineer, Vancouver

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What's Included

Couples Coaching

For couples wanting to reignite the spark — together

My work is comprehensive, personally tailored, and has been applied with over 500 men and couples. This is an accelerated, results-oriented process. I work with most clients for 6 months to 2 years.

This offer includes:

Choice between monthly retainer or 6-month immersion package

1:1 video sessions

Direct access to Dr. Jessica via messaging

Playful and passionate couples' library of tailored practices

In-depth personal assessment, weekly accountability, and quantification of progress

In-person retreat in the San Francisco Bay Area (6-month Immersion only)

Access to Jessica Gold AI 24/7

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Frequently Asked Questions

How is this different from couples therapy?

My approach is more pro-active, directive, and embodied. You will have practices to do unlike anything you've tried before. I spent 4 years living in a spiritual community and living through my own healing regarding relationships and sexuality, and I bring that lived experience and out-of-the-box approach.

Do you offer single sessions?

I do not. You can get a taste of my work via an introductory call and a 1-month retainer.

Do you offer in-person work?

If you choose the 6-month immersion, then we begin with an in-person retreat. Otherwise, calls are via Zoom or walk-and-talk.

What is your pricing?

You can find current pricing on the application form. Note that my sessions for couples are 90 min and my work is not priced 'by the hour.' I spend significant time outside of our sessions supporting you because it makes the work deep, faster, and more effective.

Let's rediscover the magic in your relationship

I accept only a small handful of clients per year. Request your chemistry call below.

*Serious and appropriate inquiries only.*

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Get Back on the Same Team in Love

Stop endless fighting, bring the passion back, and become a true Power Couple, inside and out.

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