self-paced course
Total Confidence in Bed for Men
A practical, 4-week, self-paced course for men who want to solve performance anxiety for good and become a confident lover.
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where to start
If you’re tired of worrying about whether your body will cooperate in the moment, you're not alone.
Performance anxiety is one of the most common issues men face in intimacy. You want to please your partner. You have so much to offer. But instead, your mind starts to spiral: How will my body betray me this time?
You end up overthinking and missing out on watching her in ecstasy.
You've heard about what is possible. The full-body pleasure, connection that feels electric, and the confidence of a man who knows he’s got this.
But where do you start? Here.
Let’s face it — you know you have so much to offer and you really want to make her happy - but you're tired of being frustrated by the limitations of your body.
let's put an end to...
Feeling anxious before intimacy because you never know if your body will cooperate.
Worrying about staying aroused, finishing too soon, or not being able to finish at all.
Avoiding intimacy because you’re afraid of being in your head or disappointing her.
so that you can start...
Trusting your body.
Enjoying watching her in ecstasy instead of overthinking every moment.
Feeling so confident that you walk down the street with a swagger.
what you'll discover
Confidence, control, and connection like never before.
the bliss science difference
Dr. Jessica's unique blend of scientific rigor, holistic wisdom, and years of experience will help you rewire the anxiety loops that hold you back in intimacy, and replace them with ease, awareness, and mastery. You’ll not only learn what to do—you’ll understand why it works, so your confidence becomes second nature.
in this course you will learn...
The 4 fundamental shifts to get your sexual confidence back, based on neo-tantric principles and modern psychology.
The step-by-step manual for addressing the 3 main types of performance anxiety, so you always know what to do when it happens.
How to relate to yourself (and your c*ck) in a neuroscience-backed way that's more effective than pressure, frustration, or shame.
How to confidently pleasure your partner in ways she can’t stop thinking or talking about.
After working with Jessica, my energy shifted, and my wife started initiating intimacy - unheard of before - and she even pounced on me in the middle of the night.
Sam
Lawyer, Miami
I feel very thankful for my choice to work with Jessica. I consider her a great human asset in my self-development process, which has spanned 30 years.
Zach
Founder & CEO, Denver
I am also impressed at how deep you can take me - and how much you can help me feel. True mastery of your craft. There’s no one else I would trust to take me to that place. You’re one of a kind.
Eric
Founder & Engineer, Seattle
“After a 10 year intimate dry spell in my marriage, this work allowed me to finally reconnect intimately with my wife.”
James
Scientist, Berkeley
"Through these practices, I saw my wife like she was 20 years ago - there was a newness and innocence in relating. We lost that through the years of kids, work, and stress."
Jeff
Engineer, Berkeley
If you want to make your intimate life better and grow the connection with your partner, work with Jessica, you won’t be disappointed.
James
Engineer, Vancouver
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*names & images have been changed to protect the anonymity of my clients.
After working with Jessica, my energy shifted, and my wife started initiating intimacy - unheard of before - and she even pounced on me in the middle of the night.
Sam
Lawyer, Miami
I feel very thankful for my choice to work with Jessica. I consider her a great human asset in my self-development process, which has spanned 30 years.
Zach
Founder & CEO, Denver
I am also impressed at how deep you can take me - and how much you can help me feel. True mastery of your craft. There’s no one else I would trust to take me to that place. You’re one of a kind.
Eric
Founder & Engineer, Seattle
“After a 10 year intimate dry spell in my marriage, this work allowed me to finally reconnect intimately with my wife.”
James
Scientist, Berkeley
"Through these practices, I saw my wife like she was 20 years ago - there was a newness and innocence in relating. We lost that through the years of kids, work, and stress."
Jeff
Engineer, Berkeley
If you want to make your intimate life better and grow the connection with your partner, work with Jessica, you won’t be disappointed.
James
Engineer, Vancouver
“The sex in my 20+ year marriage had dropped to 1x every 4-6 months. I was resigned, thinking ‘this is just the way it is’. But after working with Jessica, my energy shifted, and my wife started initiated sex - unheard of before - and even pounced on me in the middle of the night. AND, after years of finishing in the first 2-5 min, now we go for 30 min. Our sex life is better than ever, and the sex is helping everything about our relationships. This stuff works.”
Sam
Miami
"I now last longer in bed, which changed the whole game for me and my partner. Sex is so much fun now. I would really recommend anyone who likes to love, to give a shot to this program"
Jose
Spain
"After working with Jessica, I'm more confident in asking for what I want / asserting myself in the bedroom, knowing that this is something my partner sees as positive. I feel much more physically connected to both myself, and my partner."
Gabriel
CEO and Founder, San Francisco
“Sex and intimacy have always felt stressful and like a performance. I spent 95% of my life not in my body, only trying to inhabit myself during intimacy - which wasn’t working. After working with Jessica, I am now able to communicate expectations up front prior to intimacy. I feel less trapped and helpless. I feel cracks in the unworthiness armor that I’ve carried for so long. I’m no longer stuck. I feel centered, and for the first time, I feel safe to be in my body. Before I used to worry that I needed to perform or I’d be an embarrassment and my relationship would be over. Now I give myself permission to talk about what I need and to go at the slower pace that my body is asking for.”
Brian
Engineer, NYC
"Jessica took me to places I have never been before in full body pleasure, and in love for myself and others! Through working with her, I have found more enjoyment and blissful feelings than I ever experienced. She has helped me deal successfully with being in a 40-year marriage with differing intimacy needs, and both of us growing older.”
Bob B
New York
“It’s like night and day after doing the 6-week program you laid out for me! While I can't say I'm in full control yet, the baseline has become around 20 min and upward as opposed to sometimes ['finishing' before we even began]. ”
Mark
New York
You are ready to...
Know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are skilled at pleasing her in bed. She'll brag about you to her girlfriends afterwards (yes yes yes!).
Techniques for Playful, Connected Lovemaking
Break free from anxious thought loops during intimacy, and focus on having ridiculous fun instead..
Energy Mastery for Ridiculous Pleasure
Learn to move potent sexual energy skillfully through your body so pleasure stacks and intimacy lasts longer.
Confidence You Can Feel in Your Body
Finally trust your body. Create the perfect circumstances to eliminate performance anxiety for good.
Details & Investment
Total Confidence in Bed
A 4-week, self-paced course designed to help men move past performance anxiety and reclaim pleasure and power.
$
500
investment
This offer includes:
4 pre-recorded 90-minute classes with guided practices
Access to all materials for 1 year
Step-by-step process for ending performance anxiety
A total mental reboot and uncommon practices for deep-rooted transformation
Whether you're single or in a relationship, this is for you.
Jessica's story
Meet your teacher. A PhD chemist turned relationship expert who knows what makes a strong bond.
Jessica was one of those women who based her self-worth on being able to ‘perform’ and make her man ‘finish’. She didn’t like sex very much, either, and she liked having a definite end point, so that all she had to do was tolerate it for a short time.
This all changed when she spent 4+ years in a community that studied the esoteric side of sex.
This all changed when she spent 4+ years in a community that studied the esoteric side of sex.
Bringing a playful, experimental lens to sex - rather than feeling pressure and shame - was nothing short of life-changing.
Now, the idea of sex with a man who hasn't studied these realms…well, she’d rather stay in and read a book.
Now, the idea of sex with a man who hasn't studied these realms…well, she’d rather stay in and read a book.
Dr. Jessica Gold
Executive Relationship Consultant
& Tech Founder
& Tech Founder
My certifications & teachers
International Coaching Federation (PCC level)
VITA Sex, Love, and Relationships (Layla Martin)
Relational Life Therapy (Terry Real)
Process-Oriented Psychology (David Bedrick)
Advanced Foundations in Applied Neuroscience (KCI)
Emotional Mastery (Jenny Hale)
Embodied Relationship Salon (John Wineland & Kendra Cunov)
Non-dual Shaiva Tantra Immersion (Christopher Wallis)
Meditation & Non-dual philosophy (Paul Muller-Ortega)
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Total Confidence in Bed
It's time to end performance anxiety for good and become the lover who leaves her begging for more.
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