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Embrace the art of powerful dating and smart intimacy as a single man.


Through thought-provoking inquiries and deceptively simple practices, we will: 

 Unshame your desire
▽ Make performance anxiety a thing of the past
▽ Liberate your erotic intelligence – leaving you irresistible to women.

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Your Desire: Unshamed.

Your Performance: Unparalleled. 

Your Magnetism: Unleashed.

Where Intellect Meets Erotic Exploration

You’re a deep-thinking man who’s been paying attention to the new paradigm of dating – and wrestling with the question of:


‘how do I show up as a sexual being while also respecting women?


You want to feel confident to freely pursue the kind of woman you desire - someone not only beautiful but self-aware and intelligent, too. 


It’s time to become irresistible to the high-caliber woman you’re dreaming of.



Let me show you…


Rediscover your authentic self and heart power

This is not just about being better in bed.


It's about:


▽ Knowing your worth

▽ Accepting and owning what you want 

 Healing from that difficult divorce

▽ Finding freedom from repeating those same patterns

▽ Connecting with the awesomeness of who you already are to attract a fulfilling, mind-blowing partnership.

Are you ready for your very own sexual rite of passage, beyond social norms and expectations, to make room for newfound freedom, love, and insight in every area of your life?

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Does any of this look familiar?


You keep attracting unavailable, unstable, or toxic women - and you’re damn ready to connect with high-caliber partners who deeply meet you on every level - but you find yourself wondering if these women exist.

You have a habit of getting distracted by women’s beauty, confusing chemistry for compatibility, and - let’s be honest - fear of being alone makes you ignore some real red flags.

You are quietly worried about your body’s ‘performance’ - wondering how to get out of your head and be less anxious - and how to talk to women about it.


You’re overwhelmed and fatigued by the entire modern dating process, and have a general sense of burnout – you’re even starting to feel bitter about women’s unreasonable behavior.


  You feel disconnected from your authentic self and fear of rejection holds you back from showing your true qualities to potential partners.


You are recovering from a difficult divorce or toxic relationship and want to know how to flirt, date, and relate to women again - while not making the same mistakes as before.

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If so, you’re in the right place


What I offer for thoughtful single men through private coaching

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6-month immersion to create your personalized dating strategy so that you meet your dream woman 

2, 1:1 sessions per month - using somatic practices to heal from repeating patterns and develop unshakeable confidence - in life and in bed

Direct access to Dr. Jessica between sessions - so that we have an on-going conversation and you integrate these shifts into your life

Suite of bonus programs and teachings at your fingertips so that you build a 'new normal' of emotional resilience and dating skills.

▽ Program investment in the mid-4 figures (Note: this work is NOT priced 'by the hour'. One-off sessions are not available).

If you're a smart man in STEM, you simply never got taught what works relationally (and it's not logic!).


I designed this 6-month immersion so that you will know and embody the dating wisdom you need to meet your match.

(I had many embarrassing dating disasters after my own divorce and had to get this education myself).


How it works

Using somatic and non-linear methods, we’ll bring awareness to what may be unconsciously standing in the way of the connection you’re craving.


I will teach neo-tantric practices, the non-dual view, and science-backed methods.


Through the lens of curiosity and compassion we’ll get straight to the heart of what’s really going on for you and bring you back to intimacy.


I am YOUR Tantric Scientist - in your back pocket ;)

Get confidential coaching and guidance from a woman you’d date in real life

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This is for you if:


▽ You’ve done therapy, coaching, or men’s work before


▽ You’re ready at a level 10/10 to make a change


 You want expert guidance from a woman who’s had her own sexual awakening and can tell you what women want


Next steps:


▽ Appy for a no-pressure interview with Dr. Jessica below


 You’ll have time to ask all the questions you need to trust me and trust this work

Think of these sessions as our experimental laboratory, where you are free to be your authentic self - and be celebrated for it.

Apply for your chemistry call

Get my expert help with a specific challenge or recurring problem

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This is for you if:


▽ You’ve done therapy, coaching, or men’s work before


 Your time is limited and you want to quickly address an acute issue


▽ You want an in-person option (although this can also be virtual)

 You can come to the San Francisco Bay Area

Next steps:


 Appy for a no-pressure interview with Dr. Jessica below

Get ready to step into the fires of transformation, catalyzed by a compassionate feminine presence

Apply for your VIP day

Note: Coaching immersions are NOT priced ‘by the hour’. Dr. Jessica does not offer one-off sessions and does not have an ‘hourly rate.’ Coaching is priced for the time it takes to design and deliver this transformation to you.

~ Zachary, Colorado

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"I feel very thankful for my choice to work with Jessica. 

We are doing very deep and necessary work that is bringing me increasing happiness, independence, and power.


Jessica brings: personal authenticity, intelligence, intuition, tenaciousness and a diverse and honed skill set to the work. I consider her a great human asset in my self-development process which has spanned 30 years."

Why work with me over a therapist or any other type of relationship coach?

Dr Jessica Gold
The Thinking Man’s Intimacy & Relationship Coach.

I am your Tantric Scientist.


My scientific background and unparalleled experience in a tantric community – plus my own spiritual and sexual awakening – means I embody these teachings so that you can absorb them on levels deeper than the discursive mind.


This combination of the two worlds – intellectual rigor and somatic experience – is an asset you just won’t find anywhere else. 

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Not ready for coaching?

Join my exclusive, members-only 

Bliss Science Club

You get: 

  • 3 live videos per month from Dr. Jessica

  • Monthly themes on sex, love, and relationships

  • An intentional, safe space to ask your real questions - and get personalized answers

  • Special bonuses and discounts


You’ll get to know me and my work in an organic way and feel if this is the right fit for you

Sign up for the Bliss Science Club - the first month is FREE ($10/mo after).

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