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▽ You’re a man who loves women and you know you have a lot to offer. want more sex and you want it to be better.


▽ You’re craving more depth, more connection, more...adventure in sex.

 And you're SO ready to know how to really turn her on (whether you're partnered or single)

You've come to the right place

You're here because you're ready to face the truth:


You’re unwilling to continue having boring sex for the rest of your life.


You’re done feeling stuck in your head or anxious when it comes to sex


Especially when what you truly desire is to be irresistible to her.

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Imagine if…


▽ You knew exactly what to do to get her

in the mood. 


You felt supremely confident as a lover.


▽ You could easily lead her into new adventures -  so sex is never boring or routine.

▽ Your desires were welcomed (instead of shamed)


▽ You could experience orgasm uncoupled from ejaculation (and last as long as you want).


Hi I'm Jessica:


I can give you the inside scoop into what smart, adventurous, hot women want in a man and in the bedroom.

And I'll give you a hint: it has nothing to do with technique and everything to do with who you are on the inside


I will teach you both modern science and tantric wisdom about sex and relating. I went to MIT, have a PhD in chemistry (that's right), and I spent over 4 years in a tantric community.


I went from being stuck in my head, controlling, self-conscious, and unable to orgasm to deliciously embodied, relaxed, confident, and having multiple orgasms.

I’ve coached hundreds of men over the past 7 years to get out of their head in sex, and after doing this work they tell me ‘it’s like night and day.’


You're ready to not waste any more time and find solutions that work.   

The good news is, you can make progress in a matter of weeks.


All you have to do is get out of your own way.

That's where the mastermind comes in. I help you see what's in your way, and show you how to shift it.


Why a mastermind, with fellow men?


This is *incredibly* more powerful for transformation.


1) You finally know you're not alone - and you feel better about yourself. 

2) You see what's possible, which makes you BELIEVE.

3) When your brain sees new possibilities, your subconscious lets you actually make them reality.


For example, here's a common pattern you can start

to shift now:

As a man, you've likely been told that your desire is harmful and unwelcome. 

And I get it: you really don’t want to hurt women, so you hide your desire, ignoring what you truly want.

But bending-over-backwards for her and abandoning yourself kills desire in her in the long run.

Instead, she will come toward you when you have self-respect, and you're not just a 'yes' man (aka boundaries).

And, when you stop feeling shame about your desire.

How do you unshame your desire?

I believe integrated masculine sexuality is a gift because....

Secretly, women admit:

there's nothing better than

being consensually well-fucked

by a strong, confident man.

Imagine having this:

Total confidence in the pleasure you can offer


Irresistible skill in how you make love

Zero anxiety about your 'performance'

And a woman who goes crazy with pleasure in bed.


It IS possible - and it's actually what clients experience after working with me.

Structure of the Mastermind:


We use a systematic, tantric approach, 

guided by what you bring up:


▽ Create safety without killing desire [Earth]

- Be a safe, strong presence without abandoning yourself

- Feel centered and rooted in your worth

- Ground into Earth energy for nervous system regulation 

▽ Performance anxiety [Water]

-Get out of anxious thought loops

-Heal common performance issues

-Awaken seductive powers with Water energy

▽ Neo-tantra and BDSM [Fire]

-Step into new sexual archetypes

-Connect with your personal power

-Bring Fire energy to skillfully play with sexual edges

▽ Full-body orgasm [Wind]

-Circulate sexual energy through your body

-Develop new kinds of pleasure

-Love without losing yourself

 Devotion [Space]

Cultivate your ledge of freedom

Connect with the Sacred

Create the ultimate vision for your life

*Program subject to change, guided by participants' needs


When: Tuesdays, 5:30-7:00 pm Pacific

Starting May 9th (ending Sept. 26th - 18 Tuesdays)

What: Teachings, Real-time Coaching, and Q&A 

+ Bonus mini-courses and rituals 

(I am often inspired to give you extra stuff!)

Where: Zoom

PLUS an IN-PERSON daylong in the SF Bay Area

Commitment: 5 months

Investment: $600/mo 

Early Bird: $550/mo - ends 4/25.


BIPOC pricing available

Strictly Limited to 12 Men! Get your spot ASAP.


You’ll receive:


27 hours of training

▽ IN-PERSON event to practice together in the Bay Area

Online library of bonuses and recordings

▽ Private online community for more guidance



All sessions recorded and available for 12 months

"Jessica took me to places I have never been before in sexual pleasure, in full body pleasure, and in love for myself and others!


It is so comfortable sharing with her, laughing, digging deep into myself in an honest way, then letting her help me find more enjoyment and blissful feelings than I ever experienced.


She has helped me deal successfully with being in a 40-year marriage with differing sexual needs, and both of us growing older.


She helped me grapple with an abusive childhood and resulting low self-esteem.

I am so excited, in fact, to learn more, dig more, heal more, feel more in future sessions!!"


~ Bob B, New York

Happy Man

“I really love your energy, I love that I feel safe with you and that you can understand my perspective and struggles as a man.


I often feel reassured by you and I love the feedback I get from you when I'm being a certain way that has you feeling good. 


That's feedback most women never give me."   


~Mike, San Francisco

It’s like night and day after doing the

6-week program you laid out for me!

While I can't say I'm in full control yet, the baseline has become around 20 min and upward as opposed to sometimes ejaculating upon penetration. ”


~ Mark, New York

Happy Man

This is for you if:


▽ You’re ready to commit, show up, and change your life 


▽ You're willing to participate with vulnerability 


▽ You’re determined to change your habits around sex - even if at first it’s uncomfortable or doesn’t feel sexy.

▽ You’re over trying to go it alone and you understand the value of talking openly about sex in community, even if it’s a little scary.

▽ You’re open to playing in non-linear and mystical realms beyond the rational mind

This isn’t for you if:

▽ You aren’t willing to be uncomfortable or vulnerable

▽ You aren't willing to take responsibility for your role and introspect

▽ You aren’t able to take feedback gracefully -  without being defensive, justifying, or explaining

▽ You are not able to connect with your body

▽ You’re not willing to talk about sex in front of other men


-In love and wonder 

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