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▽ Build a relationship founded on mutual love & respect,
▽ Become irresistible to your woman (if in partnership),
▽ Attract a woman who meets you on every level (if dating), and
▽ Have confident, embodied, blissful sex that leaves her begging for more.
Through personally tailored, high-level 1:1 coaching over 6 months.

For Men in Partnership

This is for you if:

  • You're a driven, successful man who loves women and cares deeply about your family.

  • You're ready to be as successful in intimacy as you are in business, and you want the best.

  • You're committed to doing whatever it takes to be the best husband and lover.

  • You know you have so much to offer your partner, as a man and as a lover, and you want to give your love in a way that makes her happy.

  • You've tried therapy or coaching before and you are also familiar with meditation or spiritual practice.

  • You're dedicated to putting in the time it takes to shift deep-seated habits and beliefs.


For Single Men

This is for you if:

  • You are ready to attract the woman who deeply meets you on every level: sexually, spiritually, intellectually, physically, and emotionally.

  • You are talented, successful, smart - and open to receiving feedback and willing to grow.

  • You want an authentic, heart-centered relationship where you are free to be yourself.

  • You are looking to work with a coach who embodies the qualities of a woman you might like to date and who can reflect to you blind spots around how you're showing up.

  • You're dedicated to putting in the time it takes to shift deep-seated habits and beliefs.

  • You've tried therapy or coaching before and you are also familiar with meditation or spiritual practice.

“I’m noticing a shift in being attractive and women responding to me.

I’m consciously aware and sending out signals as a sexual being and receiving reciprocity. I feel whole.”  - James, Portland


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“You’re 110% worth it, and I’m recommending the hell out of you!”


- Jeff, Oakland



By the way, in the video further on down the page, I’ll give you a tip you can use right now when it comes to relating successfully to women.





As a PhD scientist, I spent a lot of time stuck in my head and trying to 'logic' my way through life and relationships.

Studying organic chemistry, I received exactly zero education around healthy relationships, effective communication, or sex and pleasure.

This led to codependent relationships, anxious-avoidant attachment dynamics, communication based on defensiveness and blame, and anxious, performative sex carried out after too much drinking, lacking real connection and pleasure.

When it comes to bad relationships and sex, I've been in the trenches.

After my divorce, I spent 7 years exploring sex, dating, and tantra. 


I walked away from my 10-year scientific career and ended up spending 4 years studying full-time in a tantric community.

While there, I had a sexual and spiritual awakening that taught me to savor life fully.


I felt confident, powerful, and turned-on - and it wasn't through logic, but through the body, surrender to the unknown, and conscious pleasure practices that I achieved this.

I went on to be certified in 4 different types of coaching (studying each modality for a full 12 months) and founded my business.

Can I be REAL with you?

Over the past 8 years of working with men, I've seen it all.

And I know you're here for a reason.
Something is hurting inside you, and you're ready to come alive and not let life pass you by without taking your relationship and sex life to its highest potential.
You’re probably here because one of these scenarios is playing out in your relationship:


▽ You’ve spent years (or decades) barely having sex, and you’re aching to feel desired by your partner.


▽ You bend over backward to make her happy, secretly hoping she’ll ‘reward’ you with sex - but nothing works.


▽ You’re basically living as roommates, and neither of you is happy.

▽ You feel like less of a man because she never initiates


▽ You’re frustrated because sex is always at the bottom of her list (or not even on it)


▽ You’re longing to feel fully received by your woman - but she shames you for your desire or gets angry

▽ You know that she could be happier too, if you just knew how to connect with her without getting into the same old arguments

And if you're single and dating, you are facing some of these challenges (it's tough out there!):

▽ Your confidence is shaky after a difficult divorce, and you’re not sure how to approach women


▽ You don’t feel welcome as a man or sexual being anymore - and you want to know how to express desire without harming women


 Women rarely answer your messages on dating apps and you’re frustrated and overthinking the whole texting game


▽ You’re stuck in your head during sex and worried that if you finish too soon or don’t get hard then potential partners will reject you


▽ You want to get out of patterns of attracting toxic, emotionally unstable, or unavailable women

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My Bliss Science program for men is based on working with hundreds of men in workshops, 1:1, and online programs

My clients are CEOs, Investors & Founders in tech, science, and consulting.

They are husbands and fathers who are taking a stand for lifelong passion in their marriage, or single men whose main priority is to find a partner who can meet them on every level.

They are men who realized that life without pleasure and connection is not a life they are willing to settle for.


They are also men who want to explore uncharted realms of sexuality.


"It is so comfortable sharing with Jessica, laughing, digging deep into myself in an honest way, then letting her help me find more enjoyment and blissful feelings than I ever experienced. She has helped me deal successfully with being in a 40-year marriage with differing sexual needs, and both of us growing older. She helped me grapple with an abusive childhood and resulting low self-esteem."


-Bob, New York


Jessica is an incredible coach, she is deeply insightful and is one the most compassionate souls I’ve encountered on this journey. 


Her scientific background, coupled with her coaching credentials and continuous self- study make her a well-rounded coach with an effective approach to helping men overcome the obstacles in their life. 


She is one of a kind and I strongly recommend her for men looking to realize their best self”  

- R.O., Canada



Why do I specialize in working with men?

Contrary to media portrayals, men are seeking deep love and lasting partnership - and women are craving self-aware men willing to do the work.

▽ But while there were many programs for women, all I saw was the shaming of men - from women and the media - and no one teaching the new paradigm of relating.

▽ As a scientist who was stuck in my head, loved fixing things and giving advice, and who felt shame about my desire and sexuality, I felt I could relate to men's experiences.

It can be deeply healing for men to talk about sex with a supportive female presence who doesn't shame you for your desire, and who also provides honest feedback on how you're showing up.

“One of the many things that I love about Dr. Harvey is that she is fierce and fearless in standing with me on this journey”  

- Michael, Seattle


“I’m incredibly happy with you. You’re talented, smart, you’re a great communicator. You got me in touch with parts of myself that I’ve been repressing for 20 years“.  

- Sam, Miami



What you get:


▽ 12, 75-min sessions over 6 months. 2 sessions/month.

Access to my online library of mini-courses, including: Neo-tantra massage, Primal Ritual, and Sexual Confidence Training

▽ 1 VIP daylong in-person intensive in the SF Bay Area 

▽ Tailor-made recorded practices for you to keep forever

▽ Up to 30 min of messaging in-between sessions 

This 6-month container will….


Show you how to turn around a sexless marriage (and have her initiating)
• Restore your confidence after divorce (know exactly what women want)

• Give you embodied sexual skills (get out of your head and feel confident)
• Make relating to women easier and possibly even fun

• Give you a powerful, confident masculine presence that is irresistible

• Show you how to be a the tantric lover of your dreams

• Empower you to attract the woman who deeply meets you on every level

Give you real-time, honest feedback from a supportive feminine presence

Here are some of the themes we may explore (each package is tailored specifically to you)






















This coaching offer is available for $15K. 


This pricing allows me to provide a high level of service for you, keeping you on-track and accountable in a loving way, while having a team to run the daily details of my business.


Prices for this work are not per hour but per package because of the additional time I spend outside our sessions, including supporting clients as needed and creating tailored practices.


My sessions are 60-75-min long due to the combination of somatic work with other approaches.


A payment plan is available.

Here’s how you sign up:

Pick a time on my calendar for a 55-min call to see if it’s a good fit for both of us.

You’ll answer some questions when you sign up for the call.

There’s a non-refundable $100 deposit to reserve these spots for those who are serious about this work. I’ll subtract it from the program total when you sign up with me.

Once we both decide it’s a fit, I’ll send you a contract to review, and then we will schedule our first session together and begin.


From this work you will walk away with:

 Communication skills that stop endless arguments about who's 'right'

 Confidence that ends cycles of painful self-criticism

  Masculine Power that makes you irresistible to women


 Wizard level sex skills so that performance anxiety is a thing of the past 


 Truly grokking women so that their ways no longer leave you scratching your head. Finally.

A non-dual tantric mentality to life so that you meet challenges in a way that inspires respect.


In love and wonder,



PS.  If you do anything today, remember to apply the insight I shared in the video!