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Build a relationship that has a foundation of mutual love & respect, fulfills your desire, and gives you the freedom to be yourself
Through personally tailored, high-level 1:1 coaching over 6 months.

For men in partnership
This is for you if:

  • You’re basically living as roommates, and neither of you is happy.

  • You’re aching to feel desired by your partner.

  • You bend over backward to make her happy, silently hoping she’ll ‘reward’ you with sex - but nothing works.

  • You feel ignored, dead, and hopeless as a sexual being.

  • You’re starting to lose the ability to resist temptation from outside sources, and it’s worrying you because you love your family.


For Single men
This is for you if:

  • Your confidence is in the gutter after a difficult divorce, and you don’t know to relate to women anymore.

  • You’ve been shamed & criticized for your sexuality, and you don’t feel welcome as a man in the world anymore.

  • You’re hesitant to even have sex again because of how women have shamed your 'performance.’

  • You’re stuck in your head and struggling with sexual confidence.

  • You’re aching just to be held.

  • You feel you have so much to give, but it never seems to be received well.

  • You’re ready to know exactly how to show up to be irresistible to women.

“I’m noticing a shift in being attractive and women responding to me.

I’m consciously aware and sending out signals as a sexual being and receiving reciprocity. I feel whole.”  - James, Portland


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“You’re 110% worth it, and I’m recommending the hell out of you!”


- Jeff, Oakland



By the way, in the video further on down the page, I’ll give you a tip you can use right now when it comes to relating successfully to women.





As a PhD scientist, I have spent a lot of time in a man’s world and in the analytical side of life.

I know what it’s like to produce and perform under pressure, working in lab until midnight and on weekends.

I was highly self-critical (as a form of motivation), stuck in my head, and actively suppressed my emotions and the needs of my body.

This was a pressure-cooker that lead to toxic relationships, bad sex, and burnout.

As a scientist, I received exactly zero education around emotional wisdom, effective communication, healthy relationships, or sexuality.

I know what it’s like to try to apply rational principles to relating and have it fail miserably.

It was only when I decided to purposely face my fears and walked away from a 10-years scientific career that I had the sexual-spiritual awakening that changed everything. I spent 4 years studying in a tantric community after that.

I felt confident, powerful, and turned-on - and it wasn't through logic, but through the body, surrender, and the wisdom of emotions - that I achieved this.

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I believe that iff we truly want awesome relationships between men and women, we won’t get there by shaming each other.

My clients are CEOs, Investors & Founders in tech, science, and consulting.

They are husbands and fathers who are taking a stand for lifelong passion in their marriage, or single men whose main priority is to find a partner who can meet them on every level.

They are men who realized that life without pleasure and connection is not a life they are willing to settle for.


They are also men who want to explore uncharted realms of sexuality.

My Bliss Science program for men has emerged from all of the work I have done with hundreds of men in workshops, 1:1, and online programs over the past 8 years.

"It is so comfortable sharing with Jessica, laughing, digging deep into myself in an honest way, then letting her help me find more enjoyment and blissful feelings than I ever experienced. She has helped me deal successfully with being in a 40-year marriage with differing sexual needs, and both of us growing older. She helped me grapple with an abusive childhood and resulting low self-esteem."


-Bob, New York


Jessica is an incredible coach, she is deeply insightful and is one the most compassionate souls I’ve encountered on this journey. 


Her scientific background, coupled with her coaching credentials and continuous self- study make her a well-rounded coach with an effective approach to helping men overcome the obstacles in their life. 


She is one of a kind and I strongly recommend her for men looking to realize their best self”  

- R.O., Canada



Why did I create this?

▽ I created Bliss Science Coaching because when I looked around the world, I saw an enormous amount of harm caused by the shaming of our sexual self.

▽ I saw our repressed sexuality acted out in shadowy ways, creating a rift between men and women.

▽ I wanted especially to work with men around sex, love, and relationships because as a scientist, I felt I could relate, and I saw men being underserved in this area - and often shamed for not undertaking personal growth work.

“One of the many things that I love about Dr. Harvey is that she is fierce and fearless in standing with me on this journey”  

- Michael, Seattle


“I’m incredibly happy with you. You’re talented, smart, you’re a great communicator. You got me in touch with parts of myself that I’ve been repressing for 20 years“.  

- Sam, Miami



What you get:


▽ 18, 60-75-min sessions over 6 months. 3 weekly sessions/month.

Tailor-made recorded practices for you to keep forever

▽ Up to 30 min of messaging in-between sessions 

▽ Access to my online library of resources, including attachment styles, erotic massage, and sexual confidence training.

This 6-month container will….


Show you how to turn around a sexless marriage
• Restore your confidence after divorce or in dating
Give you new, embodied sexual skills
• Make relating to women easier and possibly even fun


Heal deep-seated, unconscious wounds from the bottom-up (no ‘convincing’ yourself using logic)

• Give you ‘magic’ insight by understanding defense mechanisms, trauma responses, attachment style, and the nervous system

Develop a powerful + confident masculine presence that is irresistible to your partner and has her initiating• Unshame your sexuality

Connect you to your core essence, your truth, and your desires
• Show you how to communicate in a way that can be received 
Create effortless empathy because you will Finally. Understand. Women.
• Work with you somatically, spiritually & intellectually to develop a Tantric Mentality 
Give you real-time, honest feedback from a supportive feminine presence

Here are some of the themes we may explore (each package is tailored specifically to you)






















This coaching offer is available for $10K. 


This pricing allows me to provide a high level of service for you, keeping you on-track and accountable in a loving way, while having a team to run the daily details of my business.


Prices for this work are not per hour but per package because of the additional time I spend outside our sessions, including supporting clients as needed and creating tailored practices.


My sessions are 60-75-min long due to the combination of somatic work with other approaches.


A payment plan is available.

Here’s how you sign up:

Pick a time on my calendar for a 55-min call to see if it’s a good fit for both of us!

You’ll answer some questions when you sign up for the call.

There’s a non-refundable $100 deposit to reserve these spots for those who are serious about this work. I’ll subtract it from the program total when you sign up with me.

Once we both decide it’s a fit, I’ll send you a contract to review, and then we will schedule our first session together and begin.


From this work you will walk away with:

 Communication skills that stop endless arguments about who's 'right'

 Confidence that ends cycles of painful self-criticism

  Masculine Power that makes you irresistible to women


 Wizard level sex skills so that performance anxiety is a thing of the past and you can create deep connection


 Truly grokking women so that their ways no longer leave you scratching your head. Finally.

A non-dual tantric mentality to life so that you meet challenges in a way that inspires respect.



1) Are these sessions exclusively online or can we meet in person?

The sessions are ONLINE ONLY, via Zoom or Google Meet. There is no in-person component.

2) Can we meet every other week?

The sessions are weekly, with 3 sessions per month and one week ‘off’ every 3 weeks.

3) How much time do I need for in-between session practice?

You may want to set aside up to 30 min, 3x/week. Usually the practices are 10-15 min.

4) Will this help me with performance anxiety?

Yes, I have worked with men with premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and delayed ejaculation.

5) Does this program help with porn dependence?


I am not a specialist in porn addiction, though this work has helped men change their relationship to porn.

6) I have suffered extensive sexual trauma, can this work help that?


My program is designed for high-functioning individuals wishing to shift unhelpful patterns in sex, love, and relationships, and I am a trauma-informed practitioner. If your primary focus is to heal significant trauma, I suggest you see a trauma specialist. 

7) Can this program turn around my sexless marriage?

I have worked with many men in this situation and seen them revive the passion and intimacy in their marriage.

8) How do I pay you?


I accept PayPal and Stripe.

9) How long are the sessions?


60-75 min.

10) Do you give refunds?


There are no refunds.

11) How do I sign up?

Click the button below


In love and wonder,



PS.  If you do anything today, remember to apply the insight I shared in the video!