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Build a relationship that has a foundation of mutual love & respect, fulfills your desire, and gives you the freedom to be yourself
Through personally tailored, high-level 1:1 coaching over 6 months.

For men in partnership
This is for you if:

  • You’re basically living as roommates, and neither of you is happy.

  • You’re aching to feel desired by your partner.

  • You bend over backward to make her happy, silently hoping she’ll ‘reward’ you with sex - but nothing works.

  • You feel ignored, dead, and hopeless as a sexual being.

  • You’re starting to lose the ability to resist temptation from outside sources, and it’s worrying you because you love your family.


For Single men
This is for you if:

  • Your confidence is in the gutter after a difficult divorce, and you don’t know to relate to women anymore.

  • You’ve been shamed & criticized for your sexuality, and you don’t feel welcome as a man in the world anymore.

  • You’re hesitant to even have sex again because of how women have shamed your 'performance.’

  • You’re stuck in your head and struggling with sexual confidence.

  • You’re aching just to be held.

  • You feel you have so much to give, but it never seems to be received well.

  • You’re ready to know exactly how to show up to be irresistible to women.

“I’m noticing a shift in being attractive and women responding to me.

I’m consciously aware and sending out signals as a sexual being and receiving reciprocity. I feel whole.”  - James, Portland


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“You’re 110% worth it, and I’m recommending the hell out of you!”


- Jeff, Oakland



By the way, in the video further on down the page, I’ll give you a tip you can use right now when it comes to relating successfully to women.





As a PhD scientist, I have spent a lot of time in a man’s world and in the analytical side of life.

I know what it’s like to produce and perform under pressure, working in lab until midnight and on weekends.

I was highly self-critical (as a form of motivation), stuck in my head, and actively suppressed my emotions and the needs of my body.

This was a pressure-cooker that lead to toxic relationships, bad sex, and burnout.

As a scientist, I received exactly zero education around emotions, communication, sexuality, or healthy relationships over the course of my entire scholastic career.

I know what it’s like to try to apply rational principles to relating and have it fail miserably.

When I walked away from science after 10 years in a lab to spend 4 years in a tantric community, I had experiences that check-mated my mind and catapulted me into sudden connection with the parts of me I had been suppressing.

~Space is limited~

This shift put me in touch with a source of internal energy I previously had no idea existed.


Suddenly I didn’t have to try so hard - I was free to be my full self. I was no longer afraid of my desire, or of men.

It sounds cliche to say it, but it’s exactly what happened:


an entire new world burst open within me - a world I had never imagined existed - where being my whole self, my feeling self, my embodied self, was powerful rather than weak.

It was like I had been dead before.

What I discovered was: 

The paradigm-shifting wisdom of the tantric yogis was to value both intellectual understanding as well as subjective embodied experience.

Each refines the other.

"It is so comfortable sharing with Jessica, laughing, digging deep into myself in an honest way, then letting her help me find more enjoyment and blissful feelings than I ever experienced. She has helped me deal successfully with being in a 40-year marriage with differing sexual needs, and both of us growing older. She helped me grapple with an abusive childhood and resulting low self-esteem."


-Bob, New York


Jessica is an incredible coach, she is deeply insightful and is one the most compassionate souls I’ve encountered on this journey. 


Her scientific background, coupled with her coaching credentials and continuous self- study make her a well-rounded coach with an effective approach to helping men overcome the obstacles in their life. 


She is one of a kind and I strongly recommend her for men looking to realize their best self”  

- R.O., Canada



Why did I create this?

▽ I created Bliss Science Coaching because when I looked around the world, I saw an enormous amount of harm caused by the shaming of our sexual self.

▽ I saw our repressed sexuality acted out in shadowy ways, creating a rift between men and women.

▽ I wanted especially to work with men around sex, love, and relationships because as a scientist, I felt I could relate, and I saw men being underserved in this area - and often shamed for not undertaking personal growth work.

If we truly want awesome relationships between men and women, we won’t get there by shaming each other.

My clients have included leaders in the tech, consulting, and finance industries.

They are husbands and fathers who refuse to let the passion die in their marriage, or single men who refuse to live a life of disconnection and loneliness.

They are men who realized that life without pleasure and connection is not a life they are willing to settle for.


They are also men who want to explore uncharted realms of sexuality.

This new one-on-one coaching offer has emerged from all of the work I have done with hundreds of men in workshops, 1:1, and online programs over the past 7 years.

“One of the many things that I love about Dr. Harvey is that she is fierce and fearless in standing with me on this journey”  

- Michael, Seattle


“I’m incredibly happy with you. You’re talented, smart, you’re a great communicator. You got me in touch with parts of myself that I’ve been repressing for 20 years“.  

- Sam, Miami



What you get:


▽ 18, 75-min sessions over 6 months. 3 weekly sessions/month.

Tailor-made recorded practices for you to keep forever

▽ Up to 30 min of messaging in-between sessions 

▽ Access to my online library of resources, including attachment styles and sexual confidence training

This 6-month container will….


Show you how to turn around a sexless marriage
• Restore your confidence after divorce or in dating
Give you new, embodied sexual skills
• Make relating to women easier and possibly even fun


Heal deep-seated, unconscious wounds from the bottom-up (no ‘convincing’ yourself using logic)

• Give you ‘magic’ insight by understanding defense mechanisms, trauma responses, attachment style, and the nervous system

Develop a powerful + confident masculine presence that is irresistible to your partner and has her initiating• Unshame your sexuality

Connect you to your core essence, your truth, and your desires
• Show you how to communicate in a way that can be received 
Create effortless empathy because you will Finally. Understand. Women.
• Work with you somatically, spiritually & intellectually
Give you real-time, honest feedback from a supportive feminine presence

Here are some of the themes we may explore (each package is tailored specifically to you)




















This coaching offer is available for $7500. 


This pricing allows me to really show up and focus on you, while having a team to run the daily details of the rest of my business.


Prices for this work are not per hour but per package because of the additional time I spend outside our sessions, including supporting clients as needed and creating tailored practices.


Additionally, my sessions are 75-min long due to the combination of somatic work with other approaches.


A payment plan is available for $1275/mo.

Here’s how you sign up:

Pick a time on my calendar for a 45-min call to see if it’s a good fit for both of us!
You’ll answer some questions when you sign up for the call.
There’s a non-refundable $50 deposit to hold your spot, to help reserve these spots for those who are serious about this work. I’ll subtract it from the program total when you sign up with me.

Once we both decide it’s a fit, I’ll send you a contract to review, and then we will pick a time for our first session together!


From this work you will get:

 Connecting communication - stop endless arguments about who's 'right'

 Grounded confidence - end cycles of painful self-criticism


 Powerful masculine presence - become irresistible to women


 Deep sex - be present in your body and create deep connection


 Truly grokking women. Finally.



1) Are these sessions exclusively online or can we meet in person?

The sessions are ONLINE ONLY, via Zoom or Google Meet. There is no in-person component.

2) Can we meet every other week?

The sessions are weekly, with 3 sessions per month and one week ‘off’ every 3 weeks.

3) How much time do I need for in-between session practice?

You may want to set aside up to 30 min, 3x/week. Usually the practices are 10-15 min.

4) Will this help me with performance anxiety?

Yes, I have worked with men with premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and delayed ejaculation.

5) Does this program help with porn dependence?


I am not a specialist in porn addiction, though this work has helped men change their relationship to porn.

6) I have suffered extensive sexual trauma, can this work help that?


My program is designed for high-functioning individuals wishing to shift unhelpful patterns in sex, love, and relationships, and I am a trauma-informed practitioner. If your primary focus is to heal significant trauma, I suggest you see a trauma specialist. 

7) Can this program turn around my sexless marriage?

I have worked with many men in this situation and seen them revive the passion and intimacy in their marriage.

8) How do I pay you?


I accept PayPal, Stripe, Transferwise, and Zelle.

9) How long are the sessions?


60-75 min.

10) Do you give refunds?


There are no refunds.

11) How do i sign up?

Click the button below


In love and wonder,



PS.  If you do anything today, remember to apply the insight I shared in the video!