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▽ You want more sex and you want it to be deeper.


▽ You’re a sophisticated, successful man who loves women.


▽ You’ve probably studied a thing or two around sex and relating over the years

(maybe even some David Deida or Mantak Chia).

And yet you know there is MORE.


You’re unwilling to continue having boring and routine sex for the rest of your life.


You’re tired of feeling stuck in your head and anxious about how to truly please a woman


And craving to really go to the depths of this subject.

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Imagine if…


▽ You knew exactly what to do to guide your female partner(s) deeper.


You felt supremely confident as a lover.


▽ You had so many possibilities to play with that sex is never boring or routine.

▽ You felt so skilled at working with your pleasure and energy during sex that it seemed like magic.


▽ You could experience orgasm uncoupled from ejaculation.


Hi I'm Jessica:


When I stepped outside the rat race and left my career as a PhD scientist, I ended up spending 4+ years in a tantric yoga community where we studied sex, yoga, and shadow work together.


I went from being stuck in my head, controlling, self-conscious, and unable to orgasm to deliciously embodied, loving to surrender, feeling confident and powerful, and having multiple orgasms.

I’ve coached hundreds of men over the past 7 years to get out of their head in sex, and after doing this work they tell me ‘it’s like night and day.’

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Men today are told that your desire is harmful and your masculine power is unwelcome. 


I get it: you really don’t want to hurt women, so you hide away your strength and desire, and ignore the voice of what you truly want.

I'm here to help you get what you truly want,

so that your desires stop living unintegrated in the shadow.

I believe that integrated masculine sexuality is a gift.


Imagine feeling confident in the pleasure you can offer - both in the swoon-worthy swagger in your walk and the skill in how you make love.

Imagine having zero concern about your 'performance.'

And your woman is going crazy with pleasure.

(This is actually what my clients report back after working with me).

Instead of your desire controlling you unconsciously, you choose to direct its course - toward connection, healing, and love - and of course, hot sex.


Give yourself the education you never had, and join the growing numbers of men who walk the earth feeling humbly powerful, confident, and desired as lovers.

Structure of the Mastermind:


Each month, we will address core themes around sex, through a tantric lens - guided by what you bring up, including:


▽ How to create safety without killing desire [Earth]

- Connecting the head, heart, and sex

-Feeling centered and rooted in your worth

-Grounding into Earth energy for power 

▽ Performance anxiety [Water]

-Get out of anxious thought loops

-Heal common performance issues

-Awaken seductive powers with Water energy

▽ Neo-tantra and BDSM [Fire]

-Step into new sexual archetypes

-Circulate energy intentionally

-Skillfully play with your & your partner's edge

▽ Full-body orgasm [Wind]

-Move your sexual energy through your body

-Develop new kinds of pleasure

-Connect with the sacred

*Program subject to change, guided by participants' needs



12 Wednesdays 

5:30-6:30 pm Pacific

Starting June 22nd

(June 22, 29, July 6, 13, 20, Aug 3, 10, 17, 24, Sep 7, 14, 21)

What: Hot Seat Coaching / Q&A / Short Teachings 

Where: Zoom

Commitment: 4 months


Early Bird: $333/mo or $1111 paid in full up front

Full Price: $400/mo or $1300 paid in full up front


BIPOC pricing available


You’ll receive:


▽ 12 hours of training

▽ Live Group Discussion, hot seat coaching, and Q&A

▽ Private online community to Ask Questions



All sessions recorded and available for 12 months

"Jessica took me to places I have never been before in sexual pleasure, in full body pleasure, and in love for myself and others!


It is so comfortable sharing with her, laughing, digging deep into myself in an honest way, then letting her help me find more enjoyment and blissful feelings than I ever experienced.


She has helped me deal successfully with being in a 40-year marriage with differing sexual needs, and both of us growing older.


She helped me grapple with an abusive childhood and resulting low self-esteem.

I am so excited, in fact, to learn more, dig more, heal more, feel more in future sessions!!"


~ Bob B, New York

Happy Man

“I really love your energy, I love that I feel safe with you and that you can understand my perspective and struggles as a man.


I often feel reassured by you and I love the feedback I get from you when I'm being a certain way that has you feeling good. 


That's feedback most women never give me."   


~Mike, San Francisco

It’s like night and day after doing the

6-week program you laid out for me!

While I can't say I'm in full control yet, the baseline has become around 20 min and upward as opposed to sometimes ejaculating upon penetration. ”


~ Mark, New York

Happy Man

This is for you if:


▽ You’re ready to commit, show up, and participate with vulnerability - not telling stories, giving advice, or showing off


▽ You are coming with the mindset of getting a ton of value out of this experience


▽ You know how to take what resonates for you and leave what doesn’t.


▽ You’re open to playing in non-linear and even mystical realms beyond the rational mind.


▽ You’re willing to change your habits around sex - even if at first it’s uncomfortable or doesn’t feel sexy.


▽ You’re in this for the long game and not expecting quick fixes.


▽ You’re over trying to go it alone and you understand the value of talking openly about sex in community, even if it’s a little scary.

This isn’t for you if:


 You believe sex is only for procreation

▽ You aren’t willing to be uncomfortable or vulnerable

▽ You tend to blame women for your problems

▽ You don’t know what it means to do ‘inner work’

▽ You aren’t willing to move beyond being defensive, justifying, or explaining when being offered feedback

▽ You have no ability to connect with your body

▽ You’re not willing to talk about sex in front of other men.

  • Do I have to attend all the calls live?
    Since this is a group program and your presence supports other men, we strongly recommend you come live as a courtesy to others. And, you will have access to the recordings.
  • Are the calls recorded?
    Yes. The recordings are private and available to members of this cohort only and available for 12 months after the program.
  • Will this help me with performance anxiety?
    Yes! I will map out a plan specifically for you if this is the challenge you are wanting to address. These methods have worked over and over again for the hundreds of men I've coached.
  • I'm single, can I still join the program?
    Yes! This program is great for both single and partnered men. The foundation of being a great lover is in your solo self-pleasure practice. And you can learn a lot about what not to do from men in the group who've run into challenges in their established relationship. This course will give you the foundation to create a passionate relationship and not make common mistakes from the get-go.
  • Can I submit questions anonymously?
    Yes. You can email them to me before the weekly call.

Early Bird Pricing ends
Friday, June 17th
at midnight!

-In love and wonder 

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