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Has your seemingly perfect relationship grown cold and distant behind closed doors?
Do you yearn for the time when a single look would set both of you aflame with desire?
When your connection was so powerful, so electric, that everyone around you could feel its magnetic pull?
If so, you’re in the right place

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Sexual Mastery.
Passionate Partnership.

For smart men in relationships with women they love.

The Awakening of a King

This was not the love story you promised each other.


You're supposed to be her hero, her knight in shining armor, her king.


But now you’re living as roommates.


The castle is lonelier than you ever imagined.

What if I told you that the power to bring back the fire lies in your hands - just not in the way you think?


You don’t need to be ‘better.’


You just need the right knowledge.


You're a man of logic and intellect, a master of analysis and systems, a leader in your field.


But no one ever told you that these principles don’t work in the bedroom.


As a scientist, I tried to ‘logic’ my way through relating too - and had terrible sex and got divorced.


In tech, we simply never got taught what does work relationally. 

To be the sexual wizard who effortlessly delights his woman, all you need to do is stop ‘convincing’ and start inviting her in.




Using skills like energetic agility and

sacred relating.

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Let's take this deeper:

Does any of this sound familiar?


You feel a very real sense of urgency to reignite the spark and passion in your long-term relationship. No more infrequent or bored, dutiful sex. 


▽ You’re wrestling with THE question modern men face: how to be both a primal, sexual being while still respecting your woman.


▽ You long to be on the same team with your woman - in and out of the bedroom. Able to talk openly and compassionately.


You want to feel desired by your woman again - even to be irresistible to her, sexually

 You secretly experience ‘performance anxiety’, and you’re ready to feel confident versus anxious and stuck in your head - and know how to talk to her about it


You carry guilt and shame around your sexual desire, and you want to heal and feel powerful in your sensuality 


You want to have the courage to ask for what you want, while understanding consent - and know how to delight her with mind-checkmating pleasure every time


You love the idea of having expert, confidential guidance in navigating the complexities of modern relating

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Many of my clients have been here too…


What I offer for men in relationship through my 6-month private coaching immersion

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 6-month immersion to build your sexual and relational IQ  - so that you become an irresistible invitation for her 

▽ 2, 1:1 sessions per month to heal subconscious blocks and shame so that you develop world-class tantric skills

Direct access to Dr. Jessica between sessions - so that we have an on-going conversation and you integrate these shifts into your life 


FREE voice-conversation access to my AI: Jessica Gold AI - for 24/7 support at your fingertips

 Program investment in the 5 figures (NOTE: this work is NOT priced 'by the hour'. One-off sessions are not available).

If you're a smart man in STEM, you simply never got taught what works relationally (and it's not logic!).


I designed this 6-month immersion so that you will know and embody exactly what works to keep passion over the long-term.

(after all, I had my own 4+ year immersion into this education when I lived in a tantric community aft
er my PhD).


How it works

Using somatic and non-linear methods, we’ll bring awareness to what may be unconsciously standing in the way of the connection you’re craving.


I will teach neo-tantric practices, the non-dual view, and science-backed somatic methods.


Through the lens of curiosity and compassion we’ll get straight to the heart of what’s really going on for you and show you the path to passionate success.


I am YOUR Tantric Scientist - in your back pocket ;)

Have the passionate partnership your heart longs for

both in and out of the bedroom

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This is for you if:


▽ You’ve done therapy, coaching, or men’s work before


▽ You’re ready at a level 10/10 to make a change


 You want expert guidance from a woman who’s had her own sexual awakening and can tell you what women want


Next steps:


▽ Appy for a no-pressure interview with Dr. Jessica below


 You’ll have time to ask all the questions you need to trust me and trust this work

 Efficiently resolve a specific challenge or recurring problem with my expert help

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This is for you if:


▽ You’ve done therapy, coaching, or men’s work before


 Your time is limited and you want to quickly address an acute issue


▽ You prefer in-person rather than Zoom (an online VIP day is also possible)


 You can come to the San Francisco Bay Area

Next steps:


 Appy for a no-pressure interview with Dr. Jessica below

Note: Coaching immersions are NOT priced ‘by the hour’. Dr. Jessica does not offer one-off sessions and does not have an ‘hourly rate.’ Coaching is priced for the time it takes to design and deliver this transformation to you.

~ Bob B, New York


"Jessica helped me find more enjoyment and blissful feelings than I have ever experienced. She has helped me deal successfully with being in a 40-year marriage with differing sexual needs, and both of us growing older. "

Why work with me over a therapist or any other type of relationship coach?

Passionate Relationships for Powerful Men

I am your Tantric Scientist.


My scientific background and unparalleled experience in a tantric community – plus my own spiritual and sexual awakening – means I embody these teachings so that you can absorb them on levels deeper than the discursive mind.


This combination of the two worlds – intellectual rigor and somatic experience – is an asset you just won’t find anywhere else. 

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Not ready for coaching?

Join my free online community: 

Passionate Relationships

You get: 

  • 3 live videos per month from Dr. Jessica

  • Monthly themes on sex, love, and relationships

  • Learn about my Bliss Science Method

  • An intentional, safe space to ask your real questions - and get personalized answers

  • Get an inside peek into my real life


You’ll get to know me and my work in an organic way and feel if this is the right fit for you

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