Come
HOME
to
YOURSELF
Stand in
YOUR TRUTH
Embody
YOUR POWER
Come
HOME
to
YOURSELF
Stand in
YOUR TRUTH
Embody
YOUR POWER
Dating Success - after your exit
Recently, a man who had made tens of millions in Bitcoin sat down for a chat with me after a breakup with his girlfriend.
In front of the stunning ocean view from his perfectly-appointed home, he said:
“Without my girlfriend, I’m just a rich guy alone in a big house."
If you know how he feels, this is for you.
Find the woman who deeply ‘meets’ you, on every level: sexually, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually.
Success, wealth, and time freedom bring new challenges.
Your phone's not blowing up constantly like it was before you sold your company,
and suddenly your days are all about managing your money.
You miss the drive, the mission.
To be honest, you neglected your dating life in all the wealth-building.
But now you're wondering what all this success is for.
How do you find the love of your life?
This is why I founded Bliss Science.
My clients have faced:
▽ Repeating the same patterns in dating - meeting unavailable or unsuitable women
▽ Wondering where to find aligned women IRL
▽ Creating an equitable relationship within a financial power imbalance
▽ Owning what they really want, holding their standards, and believing it's possible
▽ Healing from a difficult divorce or trauma
▽ Liberating limiting beliefs re: women and intimacy
▽ Cultivating marrow-deep confidence even when face-to-face with gorgeous women
▽ Overcoming performance anxiety
As an MIT-trained PhD chemist and researcher in both the molecular and interpersonal realms, I see that life really is all about ‘bonding.’ (wink, wink)
Eric, Engineer & Entrepreneur
"I feel less afraid to take social risks now, because I have more confidence in my ability to assert my needs without getting in over my head and burning bridges. My work and financial life have improved and stabilized substantially. I don't need to date at the moment, but I am no longer terrified. I feel confident that I will be able to assert my needs kindly and politely. I have been able to walk away from several (previously seductive) codependent relationship patterns when they presented themselves.
I am also impressed at how deep you can take me - and how much you can help me feel - all the while bringing me back to a grounded place to end the session exactly on time. True mastery of your craft. There’s no one else I would trust to take me to that place. You’re one of a kind.”
The 3 Pillars of Bliss Science
For men who value time over money and like structure. Here's an example of what our work together might cover:
▽ Changing Your Identity
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Your actions are a reflection of who you think you are, consciously and unconsciously - actively and intentionally create yourself.
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Develop a foundation of self-compassion (based on research)
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Center in your most powerful self using tantrik yoga
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Admit to yourself and own what you actually want
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Take responsibility without self-blame or being 'wrong'
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Become a beacon for a securely-attached partner
▽ Dating IQ
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Meet aligned women IRL - off the apps
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Set yourself up for success: lifestyle, presentation, friends, pursuits, flirting
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Liberate unconscious limiting beliefs about women
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Confidently assess her instead of wondering whether you measure up
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Use neuroscience to text and converse with aplomb
▽ Intimate Adventure
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Skillfully progress from conversation to physical connection
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Hone non-sexual intimacy skills that make her want more
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Create hot intimacy not based on performance
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Be bold, assertive, and light her fire the way she secretly desires
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Incorporate neo-tantra/kink into your erotic palette (optional)
Women are hungry for men interested in personal growth - they knock down my door asking to be matched with my clients. You CAN find her.
How it works
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Choose between a monthly retainer ($7K/mo) or a 6-month immersion ($40K)
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Receive both 1:1 sessions and direct access to Jessica via messaging, M-F
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Meet in-person for a retreat with me in the San Francisco Bay Area
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Kickoff Deep Dive Life Charting Session (90 min)
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On-demand 30-min phone call, as needed
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Access to Jessica Gold AI 24/7 and a private podcast feed of curated teachings.
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In-depth personal assessment, weekly accountability (if desired), and quantification of progress
-Jacob, Healthcare Executive
“After working with Jessica for 6 months, I met up with an old friend. He said: ‘Jacob, you seem happy, free, and yourself, more than I’ve ever seen you before.’ And I am, I am all of that. This work has been so meaningful.
It took me a little bit to walk through coming out to the world about who I really am and what I really want in a relationship. It was dark in the closet I was in, I needed light. You helped, with gentleness.
I get compliments from women on my dating profile now. My communication with my daughter suddenly opened up too. I’ve met an incredible woman who is aligned in many ways, and we are exploring our honest desires together. Dr. Jessica, you’re awesome. ”
How I Get You Results
My clients call me ‘fierce and fearless.’
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After a PhD in chemistry and 4 years living in a spiritual community, I created Bliss Science to combine both the scientific and the non-dual approach to relationships.
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I use methods that therapists are neither trained in nor authorized to use.
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One-off sessions are not available.
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My work is comprehensive, high-touch, and has been applied with over 500 men and couples.
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All coaching is done via Zoom or walk and talks outside (weather permitting).
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The 6-month immersion includes an in-person intensive in the San Francisco Bay Area.
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This is an accelerated, results-oriented process:
I work with most clients for 6 months to 2years; some choose to keep me as a guide for years.
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My approach draws from Parts Work, Non-dual Tantra, Process-Oriented Psychology, and Relational Life Therapy.
About Dr. Jessica
Hello, brave reader! I’m an MIT-trained PhD chemist and neuroscientist-turned relationship expert (a different kind of 'bonding' and 'chemistry', you might say).
Like many of us in STEM, despite 10 years in academia, I never had a single class on healthy relationships, or how to be a healthy human.
Facing social anxiety, stressful relationships, and chronic fatigue, I left my academic career. When my marriage ended in a painful divorce, I spent 4+ years living in spiritual communities in Asia, awakening to the non-dual view of reality.
I have now been studying sex, love, and relationships with the world’s best teachers for a decade.
I founded my first company, Bliss Science, because I wish someone had taught me all this before my divorce. Today I’m also the co-founder of the AI company Digital Wisdom, a Tedx speaker, meditator, and CrossFit enthusiast.
After traversing the dating minefield for 8 years after my divorce, I’m now grateful to be building both a tech company and a dream relationship with my partner, Tevye, and our dog, Brownie.