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The Neo-tantric approach to

solving performance anxiety for good

This is for you if:

You want to be able to rely on your body to 'perform' in the way she loves. 

▽ You're tired of worrying about finishing too soon, staying hard, or being able to finish at all.

▽ You want to get out of anxious thought loops so you can relax and enjoy intimacy.

▽ You're curious about full-body pleasure for men.

▽ You're ready to feel so confident that you walk down the street with the swagger of a great lover.

However, the truth is that sometimes your body just won’t cooperate.

You feel anxious about intimacy because you never know if you’ll be able to ‘perform’...

whether the problem is getting hard, staying hard, finishing too soon, or not being able to ‘finish’ at all.

Thinking Man

You know have so much to offer - you really want to make her happy - and you're tired of being frustrated by the limitations of your body.

Here's the deal: I personally know what a gift a great lover is - and that's why I'm offering this program.

don't want you to hold back the gifts of pleasure and healing that you can bring to women (and I mean that!). 

Men tell me their performance anxiety even causes them to 'avoid' intimacy - let's put an end to that!

▽ Plus, I'll also help you know how to talk to your woman about this so she doesn't shame you - instead, you'll be on the same team.


Hi I'm Dr. Jessica:


I’ve worked with hundreds of men over the past 7 years as the Thinking Man's Intimacy Coach and Neo-tantric Practitioner.

When I stepped outside the rat race and left my career as a PhD scientist, I ended up spending 4+ years in a tantric community where we studied intimacy, yoga, and personal development.

I went from being stuck in my head, controlling, self-conscious, and unable to orgasm to deliciously embodied, loving to surrender, feeling confident and powerful, and having multiple O's.

I love helping men in STEM to get out of their heads in intimacy. After doing this work they tell me ‘it’s like night and day.’


In this 4-week course, you will:

Learn the 4 fundamental shifts you can make right now to get your sexual confidence back - based on neo-tantric principles and modern psychology

Get the step-by-step manual for addressing the 3 main performance anxiety issues that come up in intimacy

 Dare to relate to yourself (and your c*ck) with compassion - changing your mindset and self-pleasure habits so that you never worry again about your 'performance'

Learn the tantric approach to handling anxiety in the moment 

 Know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are skilled at pleasing her in bed - and she even brags about you to her girlfriends afterwards (yes yes yes!).



  • 4, pre-recorded 90-min classes, to watch at your convenience

  • 2 live Q&As with Dr. Jessica

  • Private Facebook group for extra support


  • Online, in the comfort of your home


  • Delivered WEEKLY for 4 weeks at Noon PDT each Monday, starting Mon, 7/10. 

  • The 4 videos are available to watch at your convenience through 8/20.

The live Q&As with Dr. Jessica are:

  • Friday 7/21 at 12:30 pm PDT

  • Tuesday 8/1 at 4:30 pm PDT

Your investment:

Flash Sale Price: $283 (normally $333) 

I can't wait to meet you - I love going deep with men around these deep topics.

"Jessica took me to places I have never been before in full body pleasure, and in love for myself and others!


It is so comfortable sharing with her, laughing, digging deep into myself in an honest way, then letting her help me find more enjoyment and blissful feelings than I ever experienced.


She has helped me deal successfully with being in a 40-year marriage with differing intimacy needs, and both of us growing older.


She helped me grapple with an abusive childhood and resulting low self-esteem.

I am so excited, in fact, to learn more, dig more, heal more, feel more in future sessions!!"


~ Bob B, New York

Happy Man

“I really love your energy, I love that I feel safe with you and that you can understand my perspective and struggles as a man.


I often feel reassured by you and I love the feedback I get from you when I'm being a certain way that has you feeling good. 


That's feedback most women never give me."   


~Mike, San Francisco

It’s like night and day after doing the

6-week program you laid out for me!

While I can't say I'm in full control yet, the baseline has become around 20 min and upward as opposed to sometimes ['finishing' before we even began]. ”


~ Mark, New York

Happy Man
  • Do I have to attend all the calls live?
    Since this is a group program and your presence supports other men, we strongly recommend you come live as a courtesy to others. And, you will have access to the recordings.
  • Are the calls recorded?
    Yes. The recordings are private and available to members of this cohort only and available for 12 months after the program.
  • Will this help me with performance anxiety?
    Yes! I will map out a plan specifically for you if this is the challenge you are wanting to address. These methods have worked over and over again for the hundreds of men I've coached.
  • I'm single, can I still join the program?
    Yes! This program is great for both single and partnered men. The foundation of being a great lover is in your solo self-pleasure practice. And you can learn a lot about what not to do from men in the group who've run into challenges in their established relationship. This course will give you the foundation to create a passionate relationship and not make common mistakes from the get-go.
  • Can I submit questions anonymously?
    Yes. You can email them to me before the weekly call.

Course starts on July 10th, so sign up now and stop letting performance anxiety control your intimate life!

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