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Get access to my free class & open house:

June 5th @ 12:30pm Pacific

(yes it's recorded and you'll get the replay if you sign up.)

Want less fighting and more connection?


I'll show you what works - from a woman's point of view. 

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Join me for a free open house. 

 

  • Stop 'living as roommates' - charm the pants off your wife instead. â€‹

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  • Tired of convincing, blaming, and endless arguments? Learn the science-based shifts that change everything.

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  • To recover from 'reluctant, dutiful intimacy', logic is not your friend - do what has worked for hundreds of men in my practice over the last 10 years

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  • Get a taste of my upcoming course, True Chemistry.

 

from my scientist's heart to yours​​​​​

WHAT TO EXPECT:


â–½ Secrets of What She's Craving: How to delight her, make her melt, smile, and reach toward you.


â–½ Neuroscience-backed communication strategies: Feel heard, understood, and appreciated. Stop fighting.

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â–½ LIVE Q&A: Bring your real questions, the ones you’ve never asked out loud.  

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Steve, Missouri

“I love your sessions and I think you are awesome, incredible. I find myself hanging on every word. Learned so much the last class. You very profoundly explain things in a way that even I can clearly understand.”
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Why spend an hour of your precious time on this?

I'm on a mission to help men and women love each other better - without resorting to rigid dogma or convenient 'just-so' stories from evolutionary psych.

 

There's a lot of bullshit out there along with countless frameworks from researchers and leaders in psychology (Schnarch, Gottman, Nagoski, Perel, Fisher...just to name a few).

 

As an MIT-trained PhD scientist, I do a 'literature review' of it all and bring you the options. 

 

I'm interested in what works, without making a cookie-cutter approach. Because after 10 years working in this field, the one thing that's always true is that humans are diverse and the ways we love are too.

 

And yes, I'm also a professionally-certified coach who spent 4+ years living in tantric communities and the last 10 years obsessively studying sex, love, and relationships with the world's best teachers. 

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