Shadow Work

The secret to effective motivation (that also makes you attractive to women)

So many men I talk to are convinced that the only way to get anything done is to constantly assess where they screwed up.

What to do when you feel stuck

Our human animal wants to be free to run, play, move, to self-express. But so many things in modern life are set up to make us feel stuck.

The counter-productive effects of trying to ‘create your own reality’ (and what to do instead)!

This is going to be an unpopular thing to say: You do NOT ‘create your own reality,’ simply by your thinking.

How to handle emotions without resorting to the extremes of ‘suppressing’ or ‘wallowing’

The most counter-productive way to relate to your emotions is to treat them as nuisances to be pushed down and ignored.

How to set yourself up to have a terrible relationship and sex life

All they ways our dominant cultural paradigm set us up for failure in our relationships

What do women want from a man

Why this question is a problem in itself - and what to ask instead.

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