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executive intimacy coaching for successful men in tech
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Explore the Self-Paced Courses:

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Craving deeper connection, more passion, and a playful approach to intimacy? Neo-Tantra Foundations is your starting point. Whether you're single or partnered, this course offers accessible, grounded teachings that merge science, tantric wisdom, and embodied practice.

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Total Confidence in Bed for Men is the Neo-tantric approach to solving performance anxiety for good. Learn the fundamental shifts you can make right now to get your sexual confidence back - based on neo-tantric principles and modern psychology

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Feel heard, understood, and loved by women, whether you're single or in a relationship. Love Communication is a 6-week course to help you create a baseline of mutual respect, understanding, and connection, through the Pillars of Bliss Science Communication.

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Ready to drop into connection and rekindle the spark with your partner? Bliss Night for Couples offers three hours of guided, clothes-on practices designed to help you communicate, play, and explore together—all from the comfort of your home.

Why choose just one?

Get all of the courses in one powerful bundle and save 20%! Mastering communication, exploring neo-tantric practices, solving performance anxiety, building confidence, or create unforgettable nights of passion, this bundle has everything you need to deepen connection and transform your love life.

"I’m incredibly happy with you. You’re talented, smart, you’re a great communicator. You got me in touch with parts of myself that I’ve been repressing for 20 years"

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~Sam, Miami

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I have enjoyed a number of one-on-one sessions and also group work with Jessica Gold.

 

She is extraordinary. She is knowledgeable, smart, honest (very important--she will tell you what she sees in you, not what you want to hear), kind, caring, helpful, sincere, well-read and so much more.

 

She dug deep into me, uncovering so much I was not aware of and had never faced, and she helped me face it, with very positive results.

 

She improved my long-term relationship immensely.

 

She helped me with self-esteem issues and childhood pains. She listened and responded effectively.

 

She is open about sexual matters and very helpful there, also connecting sexual pleasure to bigger life pleasure.

 

She helped grow my spiritual sense and connection with my wife but also with others.

 

She helped me cope with many difficulties in my life in ways I never dreamed of.

 

- Robert, Connecticut 

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Sex shame as a man is the worst, especially because people won’t talk about it. Or don’t know how to help change it - and I’ve been trying to heal mine for 20 years. 

 

This is Jessica’s speciality and she’s good at it. 

 

I’m finally beginning to experience myself more powerfully and as valuable in the world. My self-esteem is better. My self-pleasure practice is evolving, including from shame to acceptance. 

 

After a 10 year sexual dry spell in my marriage, this work allowed me to finally reconnect intimately with my wife.

 

For the first time in my life, I’m able to notice what I want, instead of only engaging with intimacy as a chore to please my wife.

 

I was pleasantly surprised by the level of Jessica’s intuitive ability and willingness to be present and open as a person when coaching.  

 

She also has a well rooted western logic/science way of teaching eastern tantra/chakra/energy stuff that helped my skeptical mind be at ease with these practices.

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- James, Berkeley

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Meet Your Coach

Hi, I'm an MIT-trained PhD chemist-turned relationship expert (a different kind of 'chemistry', you might say), and I had to be dragged kicking and screaming to 'personal growth'. I loved relying on logic, defending myself, and being right (who doesn't?!). But, both my professional and personal relationships were stressful, and my marriage failed. It was only after I lost everything - house, marriage, career - that I discovered the playbook on modern relating. So I made one for you.

I created my Bliss Science method to get you results. It's a hat tip to both science and non-dual tantra (which is not what you're thinking it is). You need a dev and staging arena for your dating/relational skills. This is it.

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I specialize in helping left-brained visionaries in tech, founders with successful exits, and high net worth couples cross the divide from the head to the heart without feeling like you want to crawl in a hole and hide.

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Look, as a debutante from West Texas who grew up among guns, god, oil, and cattle, I know all this relationship stuff can be embarrassing, but it's even more embarrassing to feel like an imposter because you made a few million but your wife has iced you out. Let me help you, you won't regret it. 

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