I spent a decade as a researcher in academic science. As much as I adored experimenting with the building blocks of the universe, something wasn't quite right. I studied bonding on a molecular level, yet I had a hard time opening up to it on the interpersonal level. 

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Somehow I knew there was more to discover and I was hungry for it. I took a leap of faith and quit my job to go say yes to the things that scared me.

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In the course of my journey, everything crumbled around me - I found myself with no career, no partner, no home, and no certainty of what to do next. All the things I had used to feel good about myself and define who I was were gone. 

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And then I discovered what had been dormant inside me. I opened to my own desires, my own pleasure, my own passion. I let go...and discovered what sex and partnership could be when I got out of my own way.  

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Connection on this level is our birthright. Once I saw what our minds, hearts, and bodies were capable of, it was all I wanted to study.

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I have spent the last three years living in a tantric community in Asia, fully immersed in study and practice. I become a scientist because I wanted to investigate the big questions in life. Tantra gave me a framework to do this in an ultimately much more fulfilling and fascinating way.

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One of the major gifts of this process has been to see men as allies in this adventure. My passion lies in helping you move past shyness and shame into an embodied experience of your full beautiful potential in sex, love, and relationships. 

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